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| Author: | danvaryguy [ Sun Feb 03, 2013 7:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | jeaulus of my friend.... |
.My best friend is a natural,but the reason he's good is because he's handsome..and this is what girls told me about him..he does every AFC thing but is successful with girls..for example he starts bragging about his work(he works hair dresser)and girls will smile to him.On the other hand,if I brag about my work(diamond setter)they would immediately leave.Last time I was with a girl trying to kiss her and he comes ,so I introduced him he said hi and offered a cigarette .she told him she has so he told her to smoke from his mouth and so he kissed her ...I was angry from him for 1 week but now Im ok with it because he doesnt mean what he does..I dont know if my games has something wrong in it or If I need to be handsome like him ..now the craze thing is that sometimes I appear so good looking and girls would tell me that , and all the interest will be given to me ..so last time girls would come to me to tell me they like my face,its so pretty and so we sit with two girls..at first they both were looking and smiling to me,but then my friend started kissing the girl while I was stuck with her not letting me do it and asking me to tell her about myself and end up not kissing me...and the confusing thing is that he does every Afc thing..he bought her a drink,he kissed her hand,he held her purse while she talked with her friend ..sometimes I wish I didnt learn pua at all.. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 3:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
Don't worry about what others do. Don't worry about things you can't change, like your facial structure and overall looks. Yes, girls will respond better to hotter guys. It's just how it is. Just like some hot chick with no personality, an annoying squeeky voice will get all the attention of guys just because she has big fake tits. |
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| Author: | MickCoffee [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 11:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
I completely agree with puaninja. External factors such as your facial structure and the attitude of your friend cannot be changed. The members of the community (including myself) must understand the importance of self-control, who cares about what you don't want? Focus on what you want and only what you want. Give me and puaninja exactly what you want with girls in two lines and we'll give our best advice. Keep it short and exact to the point. MickCoffee |
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| Author: | theReal [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 7:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
Quote: Don't worry about what others do. Don't worry about things you can't change, like your facial structure and overall looks.
This. Be YOU, and worry about YOUR game. Don't let his game discourage you.
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| Author: | danvaryguy [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
maybe I'm thinking wrong..I want to be better than him..and the reason I learned pick up(7 years till now)is because he alway sees me in a way that Im not so good and cool and he's cooler than me and I want to prove to him that Im better than him in this area.and now Im stuck again being lower than him..you will say that Im coming from an outcome dependent frame...But this is the truth and I didnt learn pickup for girls..I can have a descent girl to have a relationship with..and I have one..but the problem is that I cant change his veiw of me not being cool..and when other people sees us together,they immediately like him more and start chatting him.and the problem is that he likes me so much and always defend me..and he had a fight with his other friend cause I didnt like him...And when I told him that he's amoging me(I explained in a way he can understand) he stopped doing it..so the problem is that after 7 years of studying how to be cool,I didnt reach my goal ... |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 12:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
Quote: maybe I'm thinking wrong..I want to be better than him..and the reason I learned pick up(7 years till now)is because he alway sees me in a way that Im not so good and cool and he's cooler than me and I want to prove to him that Im better than him in this area.and now Im stuck again being lower than him..you will say that Im coming from an outcome dependent frame...But this is the truth and I didnt learn pickup for girls..I can have a descent girl to have a relationship with..and I have one..but the problem is that I cant change his veiw of me not being cool..and when other people sees us together,they immediately like him more and start chatting him.and the problem is that he likes me so much and always defend me..and he had a fight with his other friend cause I didnt like him...And when I told him that he's amoging me(I explained in a way he can understand) he stopped doing it..so the problem is that after 7 years of studying how to be cool,I didnt reach my goal ...
Alpha's don't care what other dudes think of them. Fix your frame and your inner game first and this won't be a problem.
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| Author: | MavenPhaseshift [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 8:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
your focusing on a result with one person who is congruent with his by style. Are you having fun and getting results on a constant basis. Don't be angry and at your friend and the game. Your doing good. Be happy with what your doing. |
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| Author: | nighcrawler [ Thu Feb 28, 2013 5:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
Just do what you gotta do and don't be jealous what your friend be doing and don't even think about what your friend is doing its just gonna bring you down. If your friend ever tell you that your doing something wierd, not right , its not you, fuck that shit, fuck what your friend says. always live up to your own expectation not somebody else. You should try to practice doing infield pickup by yourself without your friend. Then when you get better then show him what you got simple as that. |
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| Author: | andyredsox [ Fri Mar 08, 2013 8:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
You don't have to be jealous with your friend. Just be yourself, and do what you gonna do. Don't let yourself be stuck of the thought that he is better than you. Different guys, different style of gaming. Meeting girls is not a competition. |
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| Author: | lllscootlll [ Tue May 28, 2013 6:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: jeaulus of my friend.... |
Sounds like you're in love with this guy. Are you trying to bang chicks or are you trying to impress your "friend?" You need to man up and establish some alpha. When you're gaming some girl and he walks up, you should introduce him. Don't let him introduce himself. Go with something like, "This is my friend _______. Isn't he pretty?" Now you've just established some control and sniped his handsomeness with joke. Then look at him and say, "We're gonna go for a walk, can you hold my _________ (wallet, phone, cigarettes, keys, etc)?" Then grab her by the hand and get the hell out before he has a chance to say anything. Being the leader of the group is way more attractive than any facial features. And if he happened to show up with another chick in tow, you've gotten her attention too. And stop worrying about what he's doing. Just because he's holding some girl's purse doesn't mean anything. Maybe you should just call him out on something like that... "Hey, I like your purse! It totally matches your shoes." The main thing here is that you need to stop being this guy's bitch. Game him like you would game a chick. Call him out on the dumb shit he does. Be the one that makes the plans. Tell him to buy you a drink. Start establishing some other social circles (but don't be the bitch in those circles). Focus on your strengths. Steer the conversations. |
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