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| Author: | RockyAFC [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Short Cut To Confidence. |
Personally I don't think its possible to change your inner game and confidence directly. You can't think yourself into confidence. These things usually come about for most people by their brains experiencing repeated success. I've spent the last few weeks meditating (literally) on this issue and just transformed my inner game in a way which I have not read about on any forum or heard anywhere by anyone. I think self confidence/self belief/inner game come about when we decide to let go of whatever it is that is holding us back. I say this because at our core we are naturally happy, optimistic, confident people. Its just our natural fucking state. Sadly our life experiences and the learned beliefs, thoughts and attitudes are literally imprisoning this natural light to shine out from within us. Is this so hard to believe? We were born naturally, extremely happy and confident. The key word is happiness. I truely believe, and my recent experience of self discovery has convinced me, that our confidence comes from our happiness. The happier we are the more confident we are. And the same is true the other way. Just do what makes you happy. The act of approaching a woman, any woman and telling her directly, sincerely and genuinely, without fear or doubt that I think she looks amazing and I am interested in getting to know her, just fills me with so much happiness energy. Even now just imagining it makes me feel great. When I'm at work I imagine approaching gorgeous girls and I'm literally going through scenarios, possible conversations, her questions/shit tests and my hilarious answers. It fills me with so much energy. So much happiness. My approaches are so much more successful now. I'm literally walking around as if I've gained super powers. Women are responding to this shit like I'm beeming something out of my eyes. Its unreal. Just the fact that I can do this is setting me apart from 99.99% of guys out there and that realisation is further fuelling my energy, my passion, my happiness and my confidence. Think things that make you happy. Imagine things that make you happy. Do what makes you happy. I could say so much more on this. I could probably write an article on how I did it. If you are interested in that article and look forward to me writing it then I'm sorry to say that you have just wasted 3 minutes of your life by reading what I just wrote. You didn't get it. If you did you wouldn't be reading anymore articles. You would be out there making approaches. Peace. ----------------------- I'm not here to argue with anyone. These posts are just my opinions. Hope some guys benefit from the insight I've gained through my experience. All of these pick up posts are basically saying the same thing anyway. Hopefully I've communicated it in a way that has sunk the message into someones mind. Once you have got the message don't keep reading. Go out and do it! |
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| Author: | RockyAFC [ Thu Jan 31, 2013 12:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short Cut To Confidence. |
I've actually said the above to a couple of guys and their respnse was "yeah but what if the girl gives me a dirty look" or "what if the girl tells me to fuck off" etc. They have missed what I consider the central point about pick up. Pick up isn't about the girl at all. Pick up is about YOU. Pick up is about your approach, your performance, your actions and your reactions. Pick up is like football. Everyone is chasing the ball, playing with the ball, making moves with the ball. But the game is not about the ball at all. Its about what YOU do with it! I don't mean to demean women with this comparison. Take it for how I mean it please. |
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