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| Author: | Nightro [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 9:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Last inner game problem... |
I really dont know if this is a sticking point or not...feel free to delete or move if it is, But for some reason I have this preconcieved notion that if I try any sort of material on a woman that she is gonna turn around and blow me out of the set, embarrasing me, and hurting all the other possible sets in the area, by calling me a player, or a PUA. This shouldn't be a problem for me, because in most other parts of my life I am all "I don't give two fucks!" but this is really the last brick in a wall I've been tearing down for years now...Any advice or tips woud be great! Thanks in advance |
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 7:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last inner game problem... |
Then, come up with something original yourself. If she says crap like: "that's SOOO PUA." You can say: "You see, I was looking at you and gained the impression you'd be the kind of person who would be up to talk about some interesting stuff. But now I see I was wrong." |
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| Author: | Dutchstyles99 [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 9:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last inner game problem... |
You need to realize that it doesnt matter what anybody thinks of you. The only person who's opinion should matter to you is your own and what you think of yourself. Dont worry about the other people. they're opinions dont matter. Ill introduce you to my favourite quote. " A lion doesnt care about the opinions of sheep". Besides the chances of her thinking your a PUA isnt very likely. And if shes calling you a player dont take it negatively. Its because she see's you as a man who sleeps with lots of women and she's see's herself doing the same. She's just reacting to save her social image. My advice to you, besides what i wrote above, is to isolate her. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 2:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last inner game problem... |
You've created a self-limiting belief that is not based on reality. Women don't typically call guys out for being pua's or players or using canned material. They might dimiss you as a guy who's "trying to hit on them", but it's unlikely that many women will realize that you are a pua running game on sets, since most women don't really know what pua actually is. The fact that you think she'll somehow spoil or taint other sets is completely absurd. Unless the sets are standing right next to each other and listening to each others conversation, it won't be an issue. I think you're too much in your own head right now. |
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 3:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last inner game problem... |
What PUA Ninja says is completely true; unless people are listening closely to what you say/do, there's no probability that a set will be spoiled or ruined. It's not wrong to think about possible sinkholes in a strategy but don't relapse into a maelstrom of self-destructive thoughts that will prevent you from even starting out. Oh, and besides, my girlfriend told me on our third date or so that she dropped her ex-boyfriend because she found out he was a PUA. She still says to this day that many PUA's come to chat up to her. You can even use the PUA existence to seduce your girl, like I do. For instance one time I said something pretty brilliant out of the blue, and I told her: "One second, let me make a little note." She: "Why are you writing this down?" Me: "So that I can give this as tip to my PUA buddies, of course." She: "But you're a philosopher! You're not a PUA!" Me: "Well . . . Admittedly; you have a point there. But they don't know that now do they?" She: "Hahahaha!" |
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