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| Author: | Eerie [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 4:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Super Anxiety |
So guys I have a tremendous issue with anxiety. I have known this girl for years and I've always had a crush on her and after years Iustered up the courage to ask her out. She said yes and we went out a couple times. It seemed to be going well. She came on to me and we made out. I stopped her from having sexy because I wanted to take it slow. Then she comes out and says she's sorry for leading me on but she doesn't feel the same way. I've been crushed. I've had bad anxiety about it. This same deal happened to me a couple years ago. I had crushing anxiety and insomnia. After all the repeated rejections and being led on to a brick wall I have become increasingly misogynistic. I can't imagine trying again to ever be serious with a girl for fear of the anxiety when I lose them. I have slept with a good amount of girls so by no means am I the person to fall for whatever girl. I just cannot get them to want me enough to be more than a friend. I can't have something good and serious with a girl. Idk what to do about this anxiety. I hate girls for what they've done to me and they way they go about relationships. I'm going to end up reverting to being the supreme asshole I was after the first few times of this happening. Idk what I'm getting at. Maybe I'm just venting. How can I forgive them? Why am I the only guy I know who can't have a meaningful relationship as opposed to short flings? |
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| Author: | undeadheart [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 10:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Super Anxiety |
Make fun of the interactions with girls. Tease them etc. etc. just try not to hurt the girl too much. You can neg her lightly and all that shit. You no longer care about the ending of the relationship as I see, so just make fun and be like, yeah, no chance this chick'll stick around anyway so why couldn't I make a few awesome memories of it? Also. I've found out that one of the BEST ways of making a bond with a girl is to be memorable and make her dream of you. As in, do crazy shit by her side (as in, you're both in it and you're both enjoying it, she's NEVER the adventure, it's the things around you) and tell her crazy stories about your future with her. And ofcourse not just crazy stories, you can drop it down at some moment and be like, but seriously I like you, so we could have an awesome future together with so much adventure, fun, smiles and laughter. |
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