I just feel kind of sick of this instant hook up thing. So I stopped doing it. I´m very happy with myself now, probably the most happy I´ve ever been

You might be ready for a proper relationship. Do you like the thought of someone in your life you can share other things with than just havin sex? Maybe you are looking for deeper emotional connections with a girl? Someone you want to "share" your life with for a while?

That might sound very un-pua and quite a few ppl might not agree with what I say, but I reckon you should use your pua skills to screen for a hot girl you really connect with and try to have a proper relationship. Even "mastering" relationships has to be learned and it's quite different to the pua lifestyle. Gaming becomes much less, values like trust and stability/security come into play...

The best way I can explain it is using the dog anology. Gaming women is like looking after a friend's dog. You of course have do the right things: feed it, water it, and let it out. If it's bad or gets out of line you just tell it "No!" and reprimand it and try to correct it's behavior the best you can. But that's pretty much it. You just keep it in line and give it what it needs to survive.

But gaming a woman is nothing like having a relationship with a woman. Having a relationship with a woman is more akin to TRAINING a dog. Dog training is very involved. You need to spend a lot of time with it. Teach it commands, give it treats, and truly understand the psychology of the animal. It requires constant attention and ongoing training. And you need a close bond with the dog because it needs to trust you if it's going to follow your commands. A trained animal is capable of doing so much more than an untrained one. You'll be proud of it and want to show it off to others so they can see what it can do.

You need to develop that mindset towards women. It doesn't mean treat them like shit like you would a dog. But it means that you need to understand their psychology and thought process and teach them how they should behave around you. Punish their bad behaviors and attitudes, and reward their good deeds: putting out, being nice to you, etc.

Is there any good "getting in to a realationship-classy style"game?[/color] Right now I´m just using conversation game to get girls to talk as much as possible while trying to frame it as a serious interaction.

You can train more than one animal. Siegfried and Roy had like 40 tigers in their show, all well trained.

You can approach it the same way you are used to, it obviously has worked for you in the past... The MOST important thing is to screen your girls properly! Apart from looks, you want her to be "fitting" to you as much as possible. How does she treat her friends? Is she superficial? Drama queen? Of course you define yourself what's good. Make a list of the traits you are looking for in a girl. You screen for your most important trait first obviously.

This is so crucial, it can't be said enough!!

I just give you a very basic example of a trait that most likely won't be of much importance to you:
If you are an active person, you want to find someone who doesn't get tired easily and just wants to relax all the time.
If you are chilled, you don't want an hyperactive girl who you always have to tame so she doesn't explode.

Of course chances are you won't find the perfect one, and what you are looking for in a girl might change over the years, but you should choose someone who complies with your most important traits. If you want a monogamy relationship, don't choose a bitch. If you are looking for fun, don't choose a downer.

While training has its place in a relationship, you want to "train" her as LESS as possible. Let's face it, the most important traits in a person are the hardest to train and quite often you CAN NOT change a girl!
This is a perfect example: Roy got bitten in the neck by one of his closest tigers, which had been trained by him since it was a cub! It took Roy more than 2 years to talk and walk again. Moral of the story: Don't give your heart to someone who does not match your personality. It might work for a while... and when you wake up, it will take you ages to recover!

I don't think there's any other frame control IN THE BEGINNING.
Continue to hook up with as many girls as you want, but this time give it a PURPOSE. Your purpose is to find the right one which classifies as girlfriend material. Once you found one, focus a bit more on her than on others I'd say. While I do believe that relationships are different from all that pua stuff, a lot of things, especially about your frame, remain the same. Start being more affectionate with the right one, but not to a point where you become clingy. It's really hard for me to describe, maybe someone else here can do better...

Let me think a bit about it... How is it going anyway?

Sounds good so far. From my impression I don't see a problem in the whole friendship thing. I'm pretty sure you know how to turn this around and escalate when the time is right..
I like how you are not rushing into things and taking your time to see if she can match your expectations of a girlfriend.

If you do decide to escalate, don't be discouraged if it doesn't work the first few times and she gives you a "just want to be friends" line. Agree and say she's right, then escalate again later/next time. Don't apologize for escalating tho, if she calls you out on it just say you are just being yourself around her... Persistence is important, and you are not insecure about yourself. I think you know all that stuff anyway...

Keep updating!