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Author:  Black Phantom [ Thu Nov 29, 2012 2:08 pm ]
Post subject:  The LAZY'S guy way to approaching women
I am lazy.

Very lazy.

I don't like getting up and doing something that requires a lot of work.

I preffer chillin' in my house, watching films and surfing the net.

But when it comes to approaching women, the general advice that we get is:

"Go for it, you only live once and you might not get another chance" and yada yada yada...

BORINGG.

I preffer to waste my life, watching videos, doing nothing and eating chips on my couch.

I don't want to do the "hard" work of putting myself through pain and going out
and approaching a woman.

I mean, the girl might reject me, I might get laughed at.. yuk.

I'd rather stay in and do nothing.

AGREE?

So I thought to myself: "There's got to be a way to make this whole
approaching women stuff happen, even if I'm lazy"

And there was a way - and I want to share with you this way, the
lazy's guy way of approaching women.

So what's the way?

Well, if you think about the general advice that we get is
"Go out and either win or die!!" (with spartacus music playing in the background)
..."and approach the woman from the side and say something cocky and funny but not
too cocky and funny but you also need to project high status and then look for
signs of IOI and if she smiles then you can DHV"...

wow, my head is exploding!

The general advice is too complicated, and if you're
lazy like I am, then this won't work for you.

Whats happening is the advice that we get raises the standard of approach
to a master level. The level when you know everything and you approach
a movie-star/model/blowjob expert girl.

But what about when a guy just wants to go out and hang out with a girl?

Imagine this scenario:

You decide one day that you want to train marshall arts. And you get all hyped
up and you go to the gym, and you ask the master: "I want to train marshall
arts, can you show me how?"

The master teachers looks at you and says: "Ok, watch me"

Then the teacher jumps in the air, does a flip and kicks the moving target 10
yard away with his toe.

And then he turns to you and says: "So this is how you do it"

Tell me, would you feel very confident that you can handle a fight after this kind of training?

You would probably feel more confused than before, more afraid then before because now you
would be more aware of everything that you don't know.

But what if instead the master teacher would say to you: "Raise your
hands up and hit the bag...and then keep hitting it untill you get a hang
of it"

When you would be hitting the bag for an hour, how would you feel when you
went home?

More confident that you can fight or less?

Because, even though you don't know all the lines and moves, you can
still punch a guy in the stomach BETTER then before.

And that's the whole point of this system.

To simplify things a bit for you, so you can be lazy...but still feel confident
that you can do it.

So how do you do this?

Well, there are 5 steps to this system.

Step #1: First you need to SUCK at something

Before you're the master, you need to suck at it. However,
even if you suck, you can still be better then the guy
who ain't doing anything.

If you learn how to punch a bag, you will probably still suck
if you compare yourself to the master.

But you will be a master to someone who ain't doing anything.

Makes sense?

So when it comes to approaching women, try to see how you
can "suck" at it FIRST, before becoming a master.

So instead of raising the level of performance when talking
to women, LOWER your level of performance.

That's right, don't strive to be excellent at approaching, strive
to SUCK at approaching.

I'm probably the only one who will ever say this to you, but that
is the secret.

So instead of thinking to yourself: "I have to talk to her and then
keep talking and say something funny and then build rapport so
she feels comfortable around me and then ask for her number and
then get the number but still play cool and stuff..."

Instead of thinking that to yourself, ask yourself:

"What is the LOWEST standard of performance for approaching women
that I can give?"

Probably, it would be something like walking up to a woman and just
saying "Whats up"... and not dealing with getting her number or building
rapport or thinking about the possibility of having sex with her.

Just "whats up" - that's it.

And you'll SUCK at it.

Congratulations.

But you will be doing it.

After that, there are 4 more steps that come after you keep improving.

Step #2: Being adequate
Step #3: Being good
Step #4: Being the master
Step #5: Being always better.

So again, don't strive to be a master before you go out. Make it your goal to
SUCK at it, and you will advance quickly.

And if this makes sense, but you are still having challenges with actually getting
rid of that fear of approaching a woman, then check out a free lazy's man technique that removes
your approach anxiety in under 1 hour.

You won't have to do any drills, but all you will have to do is lean back
and listen - just to keep it lazy.

You can check out the technique in the link in my signature.

This was Black Phantom, stay lazy.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Nov 29, 2012 2:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The LAZY'S guy way to approaching women
Hysterically funny, but poignant
Author:  Mark_Eleven [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 9:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The LAZY'S guy way to approaching women
So would you actually recommend this or are you just mucking around, everything my mind tells me to do seems to be like getting thrown into the deep end without actually knowing how to swim, and I end up chickening out, I am probably lazy :oops: Is this good for a complete and utter social catfish? You just post a lot of content I wonder if you believe in it all or not.

Thanks!
Author:  Black Phantom [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 10:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The LAZY'S guy way to approaching women
Quote:
So would you actually recommend this or are you just mucking around, everything my mind tells me to do seems to be like getting thrown into the deep end without actually knowing how to swim, and I end up chickening out, I am probably lazy :oops: Is this good for a complete and utter social catfish? You just post a lot of content I wonder if you believe in it all or not.

Thanks!
Yea I'm actually very serious in this post, it's just my style to wrap everything in fun.

But to answer your question, if you're really scared of approaching women, you might want to try
the technique I have posted in my signature. It's the only one that actually removes your
anxiety so you can actually walk up to the woman and say that "What's up".

But other than that, I'm serious when I say: "Invent your lazy step". We guys just complicate things
way too much, so we end up not doing anything.

Go on youtube and type in "How To Suck At Approaching Women" and you'll hear me give an in depth
explanation on how to do this lazy step.

The important thing is to DO something that requires the least amount of effort. The irony is that
when you don't invest too much thought and you just say something like "what's up", women
actually like you more and are more receptive to talking to you.

And again, if you want to see this in depth, check out the youtube video.

Phantom
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