PUA Forum :: Internal confidence - how to acheive this?

I'm havign a little trouble with my inner game SPAM. This mainly came about because of a natural friend of mine at university. I can't help but compare myself and whatnot because of his level of ability. Maybe it's just this negative way of thinking.

I've thought about ways to ground my confidence and inner game in myself and my own ability as opposed to external factors (like how many girls you've banged, comparison with other people, etc...) So far, I've come up with a few ways of doing this.

- Avoid stressors - This is pretty obvious...

- Finding equality - I've looked at my friend and noticed his night-game is more or less reminiscent of my own (in terms of ability). The only difference is I actively sarge and he doesn't. He acts on experience and gut urges, as do I (I practice natural stuff, mainly based on experience)

- Finding advantages over said person(s) - My friend has admitted he often feels that he can only properly get on girls whilst he's drunk. I usually sarge sober, that or I drink but don't get tipsy.

(I should stop focusing outward, lol)
Ninja

Author:	Ninja1992 [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 12:44 pm ]
Post subject:	Internal confidence - how to acheive this?
I'm havign a little trouble with my inner game SPAM. This mainly came about because of a natural friend of mine at university. I can't help but compare myself and whatnot because of his level of ability. Maybe it's just this negative way of thinking. I've thought about ways to ground my confidence and inner game in myself and my own ability as opposed to external factors (like how many girls you've banged, comparison with other people, etc...) So far, I've come up with a few ways of doing this. - Avoid stressors - This is pretty obvious... - Finding equality - I've looked at my friend and noticed his night-game is more or less reminiscent of my own (in terms of ability). The only difference is I actively sarge and he doesn't. He acts on experience and gut urges, as do I (I practice natural stuff, mainly based on experience) - Finding advantages over said person(s) - My friend has admitted he often feels that he can only properly get on girls whilst he's drunk. I usually sarge sober, that or I drink but don't get tipsy. (I should stop focusing outward, lol) - Looking at my own accomplishments, without being overshadowed by others - I have a good advantage here: I was born with autism - a chode by nature. 5 months later, my game has built itself up to be adequate enough to take girls home with. When I look at that holistically, it inspires me greatly - like I'm doing something incredible and not even my own biology can stop me. I'm currently working towards consistent sexual encounters and it's going brilliantly so far, something I couldn't have dreamed of doing. - Support by other PUA's/naturals - I have a lot of friends in the Manchester Lair with similar levels of ability and sexual experience with women that are more supportive and empathic towards my current situation. They are pretty much irreplacable and I value it highly. It empowers me to do more and develop as a sexual being. Any others you would recommend (outside of therapy and other degrading stuff, etc...) Cheers Ninja

Author:	puaninja [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 12:54 pm ]
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Continue to improve yourself. Don't just look for little tips and tricks, or worry about what others are doing or what they have acheived. Women will be attracted to men who are into personal development. This will get you better results, and with results, your confidence will improve, thus boosting your inner game.

Author:	PlayToWin212 [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 1:22 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Internal confidence - how to acheive this?
Quote: I'm havign a little trouble with my inner game SPAM. This mainly came about because of a natural friend of mine at university. I can't help but compare myself and whatnot because of his level of ability. Maybe it's just this negative way of thinking. I've thought about ways to ground my confidence and inner game in myself and my own ability as opposed to external factors (like how many girls you've banged, comparison with other people, etc...) So far, I've come up with a few ways of doing this. - Avoid stressors - This is pretty obvious... - Finding equality - I've looked at my friend and noticed his night-game is more or less reminiscent of my own (in terms of ability). The only difference is I actively sarge and he doesn't. He acts on experience and gut urges, as do I (I practice natural stuff, mainly based on experience) - Finding advantages over said person(s) - My friend has admitted he often feels that he can only properly get on girls whilst he's drunk. I usually sarge sober, that or I drink but don't get tipsy. (I should stop focusing outward, lol) Ninja Play your own game - congratulate and encourage your friends and set internal goals and BE HAPPY when you achieve them!

Author:	Ninja1992 [ Thu Oct 18, 2012 8:49 am ]
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I suppose behaving in an alpha way can help flip my perspective to me and other people on it's head. Could just model my friend here

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