Hi guys, I'm really trying to up all areas of my life SPAM and think that this is definitely something that holds me pack, not just in PUA but also in making and keeping friends.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/God_complex
Just in case you're not familiar already, basically it's a very narcissistic view on things. (also inferior complex and because I'm short maybe napoleon complex?)
I have a very low self esteem and am very sensitive to feeling like people are trying to control me and not respect me (for example friends not coming out to see me when I invite them out but I'm only expected to see them when they set something up) and also it's hard for me to recover in group conversations (light joking and taking the piss out of each other will lead me to feel like I'm being singled out)
When I get these feelings it makes me distance myself and push people away. I also must give off some kind of weird vibe of "I'm too good to talk to you" kind of thing where in my mind I'm overcompensating by the fact that I feel insecure.
Has anybody else dealt with this sort of thing in the past and have any suggestions for how to overcome it so I can get on with my life!
