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Author:  jaropennies [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 3:54 pm ]
Post subject:  How would you guys deal with this?

Sorry if it is in the wrong section, but I thought it would fit here.

Basically, there was this girl I saw constantly in my neighborhood. She has a boyfriend and the age gap is by a couple of years.

I first met her 3 years ago, and truly started to notice how cool/attractive she was recently.

I'd see her every day before I went to work, she'd walk and almost every day when I opened my door I would see her right in front of my house, literally. I wish I could express how precise the timing was of how we'd run into each other almost 4/5 days of the week.

Anyway, I want to let you guys know that I know nothing would come of this. The age gap wouldn't suddenly disappear, and her boyfriend wouldn't die off, I get it, not reality.

So I've really grown used to seeing her. I have memories attached to her. Back before I even found her attractive or had an interest I could still remember seeing her from time to time. When you work at a shitty job (Trying to start my own business so I need money from somewhere) you try to find the little things in your day to increase the positivity. To me, starting it off by talking to a cute, flirtatious girl wasn't too bad.

Anyway, you're probably saying "DUDE! Get to the point, whats the problem?"

Problem is, shes moving. I'm a really up beat kind of guy, I find myself almost never going on help forums anymore. Not because I'm too good for them or some bullshit like that, but because I am happy with my life. This is the only time within the past couple of years I can remember even skimming the surface of being depressed.

I just do not know how I will adjust to walking out to an empty street before I carry on my day.

It won't be just her that I miss though, but the sort of "pain" you feel knowing how fast time went by, and if you only could have found out about her sooner.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 4:38 pm ]
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Do you interact with her when you see her? If no why the fuck not?

Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now.

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