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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 3:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I wish I were HIM (Now that’s me!) |
Did you ever notice, in a bar, restaurant, club, whatever, and there is this ONE guy that is surrounded by beautiful women? He seems to be holding all of their attention. All the help is concentrated on him and his bevy of hotties. Laughing, joking, hugging and kissing on ALL of them! Haven’t you ever thought to yourself “DAMN I wash I was that guy!” I know I have! Is that what YOU want? Is that where you picture yourself? It CAN be you! I didn’t think it was possible, But after I turned 50 (yes 50!) I found myself divorced and broke, and a ball-less AFC. Frustrated! I got pissed at myself and said FUCK IT! I need to decide what I want? And then I remembered seeing that guy. At parties, and out at clubs that seemed as though every woman wanted to be near him. That was my; ah-ha moment! I decided **I** was going to BE that guy! I wondered how at 50, I could take over that spot; certainly no young alpha buck was going to give it to me! Then I thought long and hard….. I realized nobody gave it to them either! They created it THEMSELVES! 1st I started going to the gym to get my fat ass back in shape! I started going out meagerly on Friday nights to same spot, to see if I could meet new people. It became a regular habit, to stop by the local pub in the mall and have a couple at the end of the day. Trouble was NO women were there! I developed a friendship with all the help though. And one day they invited me to join THEM at the pub on their day off, that’s when THEY relax -Sunday Afternoons- I did, and not only did I end up hanging with some cool people…..there where tons of women stopping in while shopping! I came up with an idea; I called my daughter and told her to stop by with her friends. We would hang out for a bit, and I made a rule; every time someone did a shot, we would have to High Five everyone at the bar! The birth of High Five Sunday! Word spread quickly; I would invite a girl, and have her invite another. The next week I would have my new friends invite more! Yesterday I had 5 beautiful women at my flanks, listening to everything I said, the service was all “Me 1st”, and everyone in the place was looking at US! I was a King holding court! As we were leaving to all go to my place, I hear behind me “I wish I was him!” YES you do buddy….yes you do! Your goal is not to look for sex or a woman but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. |
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| Author: | sarj [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 8:06 pm ] |
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thanks for this inspiring post 47 here.......bad marraige, separated. Fell in love with a girl I should not have last year and it took nearly everything inside of me to get my heart and soul back and that is what led me to this site. I've learned so much from you guys and it's changed me little by little and day by day. Been working on this transformation for about six months. I'm still very green with a lot of AFC in me but I have been pushing my comfort zone daily. Before I could barely hold eye contact. Now my posture is different, I talk to everybody, hold eye contact, kino. Ridding myself of fear, the fear of hot women, the fear of what others think has been my primary goal. And while working on this I've come to enjoy life so much more. Just another middle-aged chump on the way to pua. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 8:26 pm ] |
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I'm glad to see older gents with a positive outlook like this. And not just that they have a good attitude, but that they are actually getting results through their game! |
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