I have to admit that when you dont give a shit about someone then they wanna chase after you.
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| Author: | Shadowboxer [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 3:21 am ] |
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i know i shouldn't take rejection so seriously and i usually don't but now i feel more bad about my technique rather than the girl. I tried a few things, didn't work and it came off as creepy and i didn't like it. I'm not gonna deny it neither. How do you get over rejection? |
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| Author: | AFC Stevie J. [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 5:43 am ] |
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Its easy to overcome rejection..just move on to another girl..duh! |
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| Author: | IAmMaynardJamesKeenan [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 8:25 am ] |
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You have to remember that you didn't get rejected because of what you are. You got rejected because of some particular thing that you did... that she took and made a conclusion about you, your personality... It's superficial. She doesn't know you. And I don't know you either to say this, but if she made a wrong conclusion about you based on one bad thing you did, then it's her loss. You just have to work on presenting yourself the right way. |
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| Author: | Valdemar1 [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:36 am ] |
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Well you only did try out some different tactics you experimented with some different thinks and some didn't work out, well that was why you wanted to experiment wasn't it? to see what would work out and what wouldn't now you know that you should not use that tactic which means succes since your goal was to find out wether it was a good tactic or not! |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 12:01 pm ] |
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you stop being needy is how if you are only talking to one girl while you are single, get ready to use your hand also, creepy = you care you are not creepy from a girl's perspective creepy means two things 1)needy about what you are doing or 2)showing interest when you are unattractive from their point of view so for example, I could go on a date with a girl who finds me attractive, and say wow, look at your ass, I want to live inside there totally crude comment, possibly offensive depending on the girl, but if she sees that I am serious about that comment and meant it actually caring about a reaction from her... bam, creepy factor just has gone up 10 points, cause that's needy now on the other hand, if I just said that shit for the sake of saying rude shit cause I always say rude shit, and how she reacts doesn't matter, and when she gets mad and says fuck you... I just say, you're right it probably smells bad up in there bam, creepy factor down 10 points, now it's just an offensive (somewhat dis-respectful depending on the girl's sense of humour) comment made towards her, and you can deal with the negative reaction and it is more likely to get you a punch in the arm and a fuck you, then a girl thinking... WTF? creepy... because the way the comment is communicated shows indifference towards a response this is only easily pulled off if you are actually indifferent towards a response, indifferent towards her opinion of you, obviously it is helpful to be aware of what the girl is feeling and be considerate, but you still should make your own choices based on what you want, un-reactive to her opinion of you, this doesn't mean go around using pumpington's magical ''I want to live in your ass'' one liners, because this is an example to illustrate a point, and not a very practical one now lets consider the other side, lets say you walk up to a girl and say, hey I think you're cute, I want to talk to you, and lets say you're a 4ft tall black guy, and she is absolutely racist and hates short people, now her response is just... ewwwwww, get away from me creepy little man it's not that what you even did was ''creepy'' it's just that is her go to word she uses to try to deter guys from hitting on her, when she is not interested and being rude now how you get over being needy, is find happiness from within yourself, don't go looking for happiness inside of a vagina, because it isn't hiding in there, meet multiple women and try to get with them, rather then trying to get with only one girl at a time, the less it matters to you if you succeed or not, the more free you are to just let your own un-reactive self come out to play GOOD LUCK |
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| Author: | Shadowboxer [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 12:58 pm ] |
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Okay so what you are all saying is I should not give a fuck? Wow, I feel better now. and you know what? her loss. I got plenty of things to give and she ain't gettin none from me. So fuck her cause i got places to go, people to see and stuff to do. |
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| Author: | Shadowboxer [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 3:55 am ] |
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looks like i'm still in the game she talked to me through Facebook. lol i guess it worked. |
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| Author: | octopus [ Sat Sep 01, 2012 7:37 pm ] |
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I have to admit that when you dont give a shit about someone then they wanna chase after you.
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