I have been doing some research lately. And I have uncovered something extremely powerful. Possibly the core of what gaming is about.
Foreword
The goal of this article is to open your eyes to the never ending spiral of living inside your head , using pre-scripted tactics learned from pickup books and not bringing your true self forward during interaction with women. This article is not intended for beginners - although it would benefit really anyone.
By reading this article I assume that you already have so pickup skills – if not it might be hard to relate to a lot of things said here.
Do not underestimate this acrticle because of its size , it has potent information that can really benefit you on a core level. During the course of this article you will realize that everything you have been taught about learning tactics and using routines is unnecessary- why is that? Because in this article lies the knowledge to understand the theory behind all of these tactics and how to imprint them into your personality , allowing you to use them without even consciously thinking about it.
Introduction
When I first joined the pickup-community it felt like I had superpowers to seduce women. I read as many tactics as possible , I wrote down as many routines as possible.
What I didn't know was that I was only putting on a cloak of fake confidence , and that the confidence I had didn't come from within , but came from the pre-scripted lines instead.
I soon realized that what I was doing did not feel very authentic , it did not feel like it was me out there – rather some character created through the use of routines or so called 'tactics'. We've been told a lot about value and how it greatly affects the amount of attraction a women has for us , but the concept of value goes far beyond what you have been taught.
By using routines you are creating the image of a valuable person – but are you truly that person?
Do you really have all those values conveyed through those routines?
That's what this article is about- If you are able to create beliefs within yourself , you will truly become that valuable person and it will no longer be necessary to even think about how you would show that to other people.
I will explain the concept of value later in this article.
Let me tell you what this article is about:
A guide to improving your inner-game and developing an attractive personality.
A method to create an irresistible presence that women are extremely attracted to.
An article on creating unshakable confidence and belief within yourself.
Making you an unstoppable machine with women.
This is NOT a 'do this-say that' type of article – this is NOT intended to teach you a few routines to create a fake character which people are attracted to.
The Science Behind It All
People are attracted to value. Now what does this mean?
It means that when you have something valuable to offer people , they will be attracted to you.
It's important to understand that women and men are attracted to different things..
Why are you attracted to a hot girl?
Because she has something to offer , she has value.
Her value is her physical beauty and fertility.
Women are attracted to different things , which means women are not attracted to physical beauty in the same way we are. You might have heard a girl say “he's so handsome” - this is only because her logic mind has to give her a reason for being attracted to him. In reality she's attracted to all the value he has to offer her. Now don't get me wrong – girls find good looking guys attractive , but only because it indicates that he has good genes(which is a valuable quality).
When someone has good genes it means that other people will find him attractive as well – thus flipping the pre-selected switch , which generates even more attraction.
Valuable Qualities Women Are Attracted To :
Healthy Emotional Programming
Confidence
Leadership
Strong Reality
Humor
Social Intuition
Good Genes
Adventurous Spirit
Protector Of Loved Ones
Charismatic
Warm and Friendly Vibe
Protection & Safety
Pre-Selected
Alpha-Male
Sense Of Identity
Healthy Emotional Programming: This means that you are congruent to your current emotions and you do not allow someone else to alter that. This means that you do not easily get upset when someone says something that could alter your vibe. In short - you are unaffected by the vibes of others.
Confidence: This means you have belief in yourself and your abilities. When you do something confidently it means that you are doing it with the certainty that you will achieve success.
Leadership: This means that you are willing to take action when no one else will. You will lead other people and you will lead yourself. You have the willingness to make decisions on behalf of other people.
Strong Reality: This means you do not look to other people to decide what to believe. You create your own reality , and see the world through your own eyes- not through the eyes of those around you.
Humor: This means that you have social intelligence and that you're able to offer happiness through being funny to other people. Do not confuse this with entertaining or amusing people. You contribute value to people , but on your terms.
Social Intuition: This means that you have intuition when it comes to social situations. You know how to handle certain social predicaments. This is gained through spending time in social interactions.
Good Genes: This means you have healthy and strong genes and it will be more likely for your offspring to survive.
Adventurous Spirit: This means that you constantly seeking adventure and its exciting to be around you. You should have an exciting vibe about you.
Protector Of Loved Ones: This means you are willing to protect the ones you love and that you wont let harm come to them. You care and provide for those you care about.
Charismatic: This means that you are not afraid to express your emotions to other people. You have compelling facial expressions and body language.
Warm And Friendly Vibe: This means that you only affect those around you in a positive way. You give people good emotions and make them feel good about themselves.
Protection & Safety: A girl wants someone who can keep her safe and feeling protected, she wants someone that has the ability to make her experience these emotions.
Pre-Selected: When women see that other women like you , it has to indicate that you are a person of value. This will increase a woman's attraction for you tremendously.
Alpha-Male: This means you have the ability to dominate the other males around you. When you have certain values(such as leadership) that other males don't have you will already be dominant.
Sense Of Identity : You have a sense of who you are and what your values are. You have a strong avatar and everything about you just screams YOU.
I can teach you a few routines on how to convey all of these valuable qualities to the people around you , but instead I will teach you how to become these things. Sounds impossible? Wait and see.
THE RING MODEL
(NOTE : THIS IS MY OWN MODEL. I CREATED IT MYSELF)
Step One : Belief
When you believe something , it will affect the way you feel , and when you feel a certain way you will act a certain way. What does this imply? It simply implies that the core of developing an attractive personality starts at what you believe in.
If you believe you are confident you will feel confident. When you feel confident , you will act confidently.
Step Two : State/Mood
When you have belief in something , you will start experiencing the emotions of that belief. Have you ever felt extremely confident? When you felt like no one could stop you? You triggered the part of your personality which makes you believe you were actually confident at that time, and therefore you've started to experience those emotions.
Step Three : Delivery/Body Language
Your delivery is what you project to other people, the first two steps were internal. Only you can feel that you're confident , so how do you show this to other people? Through your subcommunication. / body langauge. When you look at someone who is confident you immediately realize they're confident just by the way they hold themselves.
Your Delivery Consists Out Of :
Voice Tonality
Body Language
Facial Expressions
So basically the three steps are as follow :
I believe I'm confident -----> I feel confident ----> I act confidently.
So what is our game plan?
Strike it where it matters – your beliefs.
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Your first task is reading positive affirmations 10 times a day , for a month.
I know it sounds like a useless thing to do , but just remember :
"When an idea is repeated , it becomes a belief."
Positive Affirmations: (NOTE: It's best to create your own list.)
I am an ALPHA MALE OF HIGH VALUE
People need to satisfy ME.
I have MORE value than those around me.
I give people GOOD emotions.
I am vivid , authentic and real.
I tremble with confidence.
I am at ease with myself.
I am relaxed in any social situation.
I AM IN MY OWN WORLD
I create my own reality.
I am flirtatious , funny and lovable.
There is NO SUCH THING AS REJECTION.
I have a sexual power and charismatic charm with women.
I am carefree , charismatic and happy.
I affect people with my positive vibe.
I tremble with AUTHORITY!!
Read these positive affirmations out loud with emotion ten times a day, every day for a whole month.
You will see a tremendous change within your self after only a month of positive affirmations.
I will post another follow-up on this article soon with more techniques on how to alter your beliefs.
For now...DO YOUR AFFIRMATIONS! They are extremely powerful!
- Happy Gaming!
- Energetica