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| Author: | hersh [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 3:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to avoid doing what fucks most PUAs up |
Something I stumbled upon quite recently. Read this, think about it and if you think im wrong, critisize it. Its how we all learn this game. So here goes: Game should be cycled. What do I mean? I mean there should be periods of time where you go out gaming every damn night, and periods of time where you don't actively go out gaming. As a metaphor, a body builder who takes steroids will tell you to cycle them. Take them for about a month and then dont for a month. Why? Because if you keep taking them you will damage your health and if you don't take them at all you will not gain mass as quickly. I feel game is the same. I feel most puas fall into 2 traps. I have in fact fallen into both. First is the fuck this I give up, ill just work out, make money and get married to a decent girl one day. Second is the one where PUA takes over your life. You NEED to PUA and if you don't you feel like crap. You start needing this validation of girls and when you don't have it, you feel empty and like shit. If you want to have PUA as a fun hobby to improve your life, you cant be at either of the two extremes and you need to be in the middle. This is where cycling PUA comes in. Go out for 7 nights. Straight. First day will be decent, the second will be better, third and fourth will be your peak days, fifth may suck and the sixth and seventh will likely be peak days again. (Dont quote me on this because other factors apart from your mind set can affect your game too). You will feel like a baller, like a boss. But then stop. Dont go out for the next 7 days. Why? Heres what will happen: The first day will be all good, you will feel like a boss reflecting on your last week. The second day will be kinda shit, the withdrawal from the validation will start. The third you will be ichting to go out, just wanting more validation. After that things will get better as you immerse yourself in other activities, hobbies, friends, read up on pua materials, even go on dates with your sucsesses from before. After the 7 days are up, go PUA! I promise you will start this 7 day cycle better than the last. |
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| Author: | Sir_Richard_Lindo [ Mon Jul 16, 2012 2:51 pm ] |
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Excellent point hersh, With everything in this world and universe, there always have to be a balance. You can't be too extreme with any one thing. I agree that men shouldn't allows be trying to pick up women. In fact, when you're not out looking, that's when you'll attract more women to you. I man should have other passions, hobbies, and activists in his life at any given time to balance things out. Bless |
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| Author: | clearspeak [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 12:16 pm ] |
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I do think overall having a mindset of cycles is good in just about any area. It will keep you from getting too high or too low or having unrealistic expectations. Nobody can be on a high all the time. Attempting to do that leads to crashes. What's healthy is steady, consistent progress mixed with necessary periods of rest. |
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