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| Author: | Secretely [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 11:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Improving self-confidence |
Hello, one of my problem is that I have a lack of self-confidence. Do you know how I can improve my self-confidence? What do you suggest me to do? Thanks for your help! |
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| Author: | Fluffs [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 3:43 pm ] |
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Well, how does the lack of confidence show? Are you shy? Afraid that you will fail? Anything else? |
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| Author: | Secretely [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 4:16 pm ] |
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Quote: Well, how does the lack of confidence show?
I am shy mostly because I'am afraid of failing. When I see a beautiful girl, I want to approach her but I never know what to say to be interesting and to avoid looking creepy.
Are you shy? Afraid that you will fail? Anything else? |
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| Author: | Fluffs [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 4:55 pm ] |
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That's AA. Take charge of your life. START Imagine what would you see if there was no you? Nothing, right? So life AND the whole world belongs to you, it's yours to play with. You're mainly afraid of failing because you feel like you will be punished for it. Well, guess what? Who's gonna punish you? IT'S YOUR LIFE, goddamn. You decide if you deserve a punishment and TBH you just wanna have fun, now don't you? You shouldn't punish yourself for having fun, right? OVERSTRESS FIX So you've taken charge of YOUR OWN WORLD. You can do whatever you want with it. Now imagine what would you do when you're approaching a REALLY HOT BABE, you know she'll FUCK YOU UP, but guess what? You'll play with her. Mainly just act chill, don't think about acting though, think more of how you feel and how you want to feel, goal for what feelings you want to induce. Mine is always fun, so I try to go for fun. See yourself as a creep? KEWL, that's experience, atleast you did something. Remember: NO-ONE's PUSHING YOU TO BE PERFECT. YOU WILL GET FUCKED EVERY TIME. YOU JUST HAVE TO GET THROUGH IT. |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 5:34 pm ] |
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Just act confident and eventually you will realise you are, remember the girl isn't a mindreader, you could be bricking it inside but on the surface cool and collected. Instead of framing it that you're worried about keeping the girl interested think of it as you going over to see if the girl IS interesting in a screening mode. AA has your best interests at heart but it evolved to deal with a world which existed a 100,000 years ago. It's biggest weakness is....it actually has no power over you only the power you give it, suppose you decided to give it none? It can't take over your body like a robot, you're still in control. Next time you feel it just say inside your head..."you have no power over me" the reason being...it's true. |
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| Author: | Sir_Richard_Lindo [ Sun Jul 15, 2012 4:10 am ] |
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Hello Guys, How are we all doing today? I'm happy to discover and join with this forum. I'm looking forward in learning new and exciting information. And as well as helping out. Sir Richard Lindo |
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| Author: | Secretely [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 11:13 am ] |
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Thanks guys for your help! I'm meeting a girl for the second time tomorrow. Go see my last subject to know more about this meeting. If I understand you, I should be playful with her? Like a little bit of cocky and funny? What about my bodylanguage in these circumstances? We are going to spend the day outdoors doing kayaking, swimming and having picnic in nature. Thanks again! |
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| Author: | johnwillson [ Tue Jul 31, 2012 10:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | re:Beliefs and Confidence Building, Self-Esteem, and General |
Becoming Successful by Building self esteem and Building confidence. Learn to build inner strengths that are necessary to accomplishing success. How To Improve Self Esteem |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Jul 31, 2012 10:29 am ] |
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do things that are unknown to you, do things you are unsure of, the harder it is for you to do them, the more rapid improvement you will see |
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| Author: | Secretely [ Tue Jul 31, 2012 7:18 pm ] |
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Thank you guys for your help
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| Author: | preetim22 [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 9:36 am ] |
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I am also bit low in self confidence at some times.. But at that time i only try to relax my mind and stop my mind by fearing. As this fear and other anxiousness is in our mind.. so by just controlling our mind it works. Thats my way which you too can try. Coming to your point, just close your eyes and take a deep breath for 2 seconds go. With girls you can talk simple and bit funny and keep smiling face. While having conversation keep giving nice small smile so that you give intention that you are actually interested talking, free and frank. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 11:50 pm ] |
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You can try this www.volcanoconfidence.com/approach-anxiety.html to get rid of your AA. It's promisse is to eliminate your anxiety around approching a woman in under 57min. Give it a try |
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