It is called the 10 syndrome.

It works like this:

first your an AFC and you start learning and practicing pickup. If you are way below average frustrated chump (like I was in the past), you will be satisfied with even closing ugly girls, because you feel you learn to be succesfull.

After that, naturally, you will start looking for bigger challenges, 7, 8, 9es and 10s. Bear in mind that you are like a poor athlete on steroids. Its just outer game.

It happened to mee too. My first 10 lured me right into a big relationship trap. It was giving me lots of confidence in the beginning, but later I felt I wasnt being social and outgoing anymore.

Also in the beginning of the relationhsip, when we had lots of fun and went dancing and stuff. I would get opened and approached by women all the time. I just radiated something. After 8 months that dissapeared, and after another 6 we just had to break up.

My game has improved, but my innergame has te be completely reprogrammed. But its normal. Even Style in the Game has it with this Lisa girl. And eventually that didnt work out either. She even commented that he doesnt need all the silly outer game things.

If you want to solve this problem work on your inner game. Make sure you have 1. The financial prospects (job, business) 2. social circle (friends, clubs, cool hobbies) 3. and health (be fit, do exciting sports) that will make a 10 feel like she has a man of value.

I am working on this right now, and only practice my outer game for 1 night a week, just to keep it sharp. DHVing is easy and routines become second priority during the mid game.

I really hope this helps man. The first 10s really can mess you up mentally!

good luck

Buccaneer