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| Author: | TheKermit [ Thu May 31, 2012 10:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why you should try to limit porn use |
Why you should try to limit porn use I'm not going to preach anything to anyone here, a lot of guys do just fine despite watching boatloads of porn every day but this is based on my own experiences. -------------------------------------------- I wanted to make a thread about this and thought that this was the place to post it because it has everything to do with confidence and inner game. This is something that a lot of you guys here know about already so there shouldn't be any new information here for you. What I want to talk about is PORN and how limiting it can greatly improve both your experiences with women as well as giving you a greater feeling of overall confidence. If you haven't already I'd suggest you watch this video which demonstrates how our brains have evolved regarding sex and why porn can fuck up our evolutionary mechanisms that control our sexdrive. [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU[/youtube] Watching this video should suffice to convince you to at least try to limit your porn use and on top of that I've actually heard a lot of Master PUAs talk about this, so don't just take my word for it Here's the kicker: If you watch porn all the time then you really don't feel as much of a need to go out and approach women, but if you refrain from watching porn and even limiting your masturbation you will feel like you NEED to go out and talk to girls. Sound familiar to anyone? There is also another factor at play here and it's that when guys watch porn they get used to the porn they watch and it doesn't turn them on as much as it used to, so they look for other kinds of porn that turns them on until they are watching something possibly strange and bizzarre and hating themselves for it afterwards with the "post fap remorse" where they delete everything they just downloaded and generally ask themselves "why did I just watch that?" Sound familiar to anyone? Warning: Personal story incoming: I can just remember when I was 12 years old I could just look at a lingerie catalog and watching the models was enough for me, but then when I discovered internet porn I could watch all kinds of weird stuff and soon enough seeing girls in their lingerie just wasn't enough for me. I got so hooked on porn that by the age of 18 when I had a chance to finally lose my virginity I just couldn't fuck the girl... I got a semi but that was about it. You can just imagine how bad I felt, I had a naked hot girl on my bed but I couldn't do anything about it. At that time I didn't realize that it was the porn that did this to me but it became pretty damn clear later on. I have personally experienced this so that's why I'm writing this right now. I want to let guys know that this can become a problem and at the very least, limiting porn can actually improve your game. The more porn I watch and the more I masturbate: the less confident I become in general and the less I notice girls around me. The less porn I watch and the less I masturbate: the more confident I become, even my posture changes and I start carrying myself a lot better and more confidently and I start noticing a LOT of girls around me. Even girls that previously looked like HB7 now appeared to be HB9 to me and I actually had a strong urge to fuck girls instead of watching porn on a computer screen and that urge would translate into approaching women. Also if I stop watching porn for long enough I can pretty much revert to my 12 year old self again and look at lingerie catalogs or just use my imagination and that would be enough for me to masturbate. - - - If you aren't convinced then try this simple 2 week challenge - - - Begin by cutting out all porn use and stop masturbating for 2 WEEKS. Take note of how you felt at the beginning and how you feel after 2 weeks. I guarantee and it really goes without saying that you'll feel way hornier after the 2 weeks and you'll start noticing that a lot of girls around you will start to look more attractive. And even if you don't feel any different after 2 weeks then maybe you are one of the lucky few that aren't affected as much by porn or you just weren't watching that much porn to begin with, but at the very least you had a great exercise in self control during those 2 weeks. BTW please don't comment saying that this is bullshit unless you've actually watched the video I linked and tried the 2 week challenge. Also have in mind that people are different and porn might not have this effect on everyone so please refrain from generalizing and saying that since you haven't had this happen to you that means that it's bullshit and that it doesn't happen to anyone else (and yes I've heard plenty of people use this arguement... protip: they are idiots) |
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| Author: | hahajjjjj [ Thu May 31, 2012 10:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hey |
Hey I totally agree with you on this one, now i have limited it to once per week and will probably try 2 weeks utill i stop watching it Gret post |
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| Author: | TheKermit [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 8:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hey |
Quote: I totally agree with you on this one, now i have limited it to once per week and will probably try 2 weeks utill i stop watching it
You can also just try to change the type of porn you watch to something more softcore to begin with before you try to completely stop watching any porn. Like switching from videos over to just playboy type pictures of naked girls and then try to limit that as much as possible... just a thought
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| Author: | Water Wizard [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 2:31 pm ] |
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That was full of so many assumptions that by itself is a rather useless piece of information. He made some huge implications at the end too without really explaining much of it at all which really downplays his credibility. |
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