I was thinking about something, on this topic.
Mistery is always like woman wants tribe leader, or alfa male.
So, today we dont have really tribe leader or alfa male. But in some situations we give some people credit as they are tribe leader.
going to poin / our low self estemm is comeing from not from thinking that we are wrong, or weak or something but from thinking someone else is stronger.
Like, when you wach pro football players or some other sport and you are like WOW this guy is awsome. And thats lowers a bit yourself esteem in his presence. Cuz you know you are not watched by milions of people and you dont look at yourself as same importance as that person.
So my point, we are SPAM my self esteem away similar like we give away our freedom to goverment. We do it unconsiusly in presence of people who we think they are better then us.
But in a presence of people of whom we dont have high oppnion / well have high self esteem for sure..
So we have to overcome idea of that guy being better then us, richer, better looking or more popular. We have to treat all people like equals to us or lower.
My general idea is that we dont have low self esteem by default we have just low self esteem in presence of some people.
So, why is this important to game?
Naturls.
I was with some friends other nighjt there was one good looking guy with use friend of a friend. Hes a bit masculine n stuff and i saw Guy after guy starting to act like BUGS in his presence. Totaly confident guys start to lose self esteem in his presence and ofcoruse that leads HB in his arms Directly.
We really need to wach people as equals or worst eaven if they are better then us in some aspects.
I was thinking that guy is in shape but hes on drugs(methane) and he dont have nothing what i cant get. I can get mussles like him if i hit the gym more.
Actualy being a boxer that mussles on that guy does not mean really nothing except he was lifting some iron - with my traning i could beat the crap out of guy.
so... why do guys leave ther confidance and self esteen when guy like that approach
Dont leave your confidance and self esteen ever, if you are in front of obama personaly.
And inner game against others, you have to confice yourself IM BETTER THEN THAT GUY. or at least THAT GUY IS NO BETTER FROM ME.eaven there is no LOGICAL reason to think that, if he got more chiks, if he is prettyer, have more money and look more confident / dont surrender to that.
mystery always say demonstrate your SOCIAL VALUE. but you cant do that if you are not think that your social value is more than that natural guy who get all the babes.
You need to ACT on it.
Just some of my ideas.... sry for bad english