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| Author: | thedirtymustard [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 4:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Relationship and Comfort |
Hey guys. So I've been rocking the pua lifestyle for the last year, and its been working pretty damn well, but about 6 months ago I met a girl who was able to actually rope me into a relationship (the first one in about 5 years). In becoming alpha, I've also learned to be way fucking selective when it comes to girls and actual relationships, so - needless to say - I was quite excited when I met her. For the first few months, I kept up the pua style; I got through her obsessive ex boyfriend, got on on her friends' best sides, and all around made her see what type of man she's with. Things have been fantastic. But recently, I think my inner game has been lacking quite a bit and I'm slipping into AFC land.. Essentially we've hung out every day since we've started dating, which I know is way too much, and recently she's just been snapping at me for everything. Its like she is fine for a while, then has a 3 second pms outburst about the dumbest shit. Worst of all, its when I'm actually helping her! I've been a man about it each time and told her its inappropriate and that she needs to cut this shit out, but I don't think I've been a man enough. Should i not bother helping her with anymore unless she asks? And I know I should not spend every day and every minute wth her anymore, but what do you think the appropriate amount of time is? She noticed the same thing and said she would behave that way towards anyone who she spends that much time with.. Essentially, I want to know what you guys think i should do to get my alpha head back? I don't want her popping off to me; instead, I'd rather her be in constant realization of how lucky she is. We're mostly great together, but some things need to change with my inner game in order to get things back to how they were. Any advice on this subject would definitely help. TDM |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 10:27 pm ] |
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I think this poll is unnecessary. Also, the time you need to spend with each woman varies. That's not something we should decide in place of you. About the bitching part you draw foggy, so that's another thing we can't really give opinions. Like how often does she do it? Does it only happen around her period?(completely normal...they're pretty much all bitchy. just deal with it). And also...that thing you say is "nothing". You see, we men work very differently than women. We are living our lives in a big way, while a woman's life is all about small details. That "nothing" could have been actually very important to her. And yeah... if she's bitching when you're helping her you should not reward this behaviour... |
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