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Author:  IcarusWings [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 2:55 pm ]
Post subject:  She says, my success based on looks, not personality?
I've been in the game for about a year or two now..
Doesn't mean i don't make mistakes obviously, but i feel i've had my fair share of success.

One girl whom i'm good friends with, upon me asking, answered my question by saying that

She thinks I don't really understand women and how get them, but that i've had success based majorly on the fact that I am a pretty good looking and fit fellow.

How do I get rid of this limiting belief? (cause obvi, i do think i'm a goodlookin bloke).

What materials should i check out to solidify my game technique and structure?
What advice (inner or outer) can you give me?

I'd really like to build a solid personality and inner game that i can credit my success to rather than outward attractiveness..
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Materials I already have access to:
Zan's enlightened Seduction
David Deangelo's many ebooks and seminars
Mystery Method.
Juggler's how to meet and connect with women (wayne elise)
Gambler's stealth attraction
Steve P's inner game
Hypnotica's inner game
Carlos Xuma (alpha man stuff)
RSD: Flawless natural + Blueprint
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Author:  CAVEMAN287 [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 2:38 am ]
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dude bet you five bucks she's devaluing you
maybe she's even attracted to you
tell her she is shollow for thinking that looks alone matter lol
Author:  Lionel [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 11:52 am ]
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Well, looks do matter. To give an example, I know a guy that first had no success at all with women. He was very shy, had no game at all, was way too nice. However, now he has tons of success. And he is still shy, has no game and is way too nice. But he went to the gym and took some anabolics to get stronger. So now he is muscled and tanned. Every time I see him he has a new girlfriend. And they are all extremely hot. So this "looks don't matter" is kind of bullshit. So be lucky you have the looks you need to pull women.

Of course, with some good game you will experience much more success. So yes, it is useful to improve your game. But are you sure your game isn't that good ? You put too much emphasize on the opinion of 1 woman. Maybe she is wrong or telling you these kind of things on purpose. I would seriously not care too much about it. If several women tell you the same ... then I would start caring.
Author:  da_roadrunner [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 8:46 pm ]
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I used to have this same problem. I knew I was good looking, but everything I read in pickup material pretty much said personality was king. I got over that by creating an attractive lifestyle doing the things I'm passionate about. I still think I'm pretty boring, but girls don't seem to mind because I'm doing what I love.
Author:  Yeah, I'm All That [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 7:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She says, my success based on looks, not personality?
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I've been in the game for about a year or two now..
Doesn't mean i don't make mistakes obviously, but i feel i've had my fair share of success.

One girl whom i'm good friends with, upon me asking, answered my question by saying that

She thinks I don't really understand women and how get them, but that i've had success based majorly on the fact that I am a pretty good looking and fit fellow.
She's being catty and messing with you. The translation of her comment from "womanese" is that you're screwing very shallow low quality women who'd screw any guy who's cute and fit. She biatchslapped you in "womanese".

Talking about success with other women with a woman is not a good idea. Keep it up and she'll mess with you some more. I would suggest you drop the whole subject/theme.
Author:  Endooo [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 3:21 am ]
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Looks kinda do matter because everything starts with physical attraction. Nothing you can't make up for though.
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