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Author:  Kabi [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 1:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Handshake

I just started reading this book "The definitive book of body language", and i've come to a chapter about handshakes, i think its lame to read about it but because who will look at me when I handshake their friend to see how I did it? come on.. their focus are on something else.

Im a bit sceptic about this because what can really a handshake do, it's just a handshake?

I know that when I handshake a dude I do it strong with power, this is what males are suppose to do. But when it comes to a lady I either greet her more gently or I try to feel how much power she has in her handshake and try to level my handshake to hers.

Do anyone have a good oppinion on handshake? Is it really important to learn about this stuff?

Author:  dlightmen [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 3:28 pm ]
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Be gentle with women.. Women usually always have a cold-fish handshake. They do not judge like guys do, usually. Better to be way too soft than to make her uncomfortable,

Whenever I meet a lady at, say, Starbucks; i'l get there 15. Minutes early. As she arrives, stand up, extend your hand, as she grabs mine, I'll put my other hand on her shoulder. I only do this when appropriate tho. If you meet at a ballgame or something it would be weird. Usually just dinner, lunch, coffee, etc....

Author:  WD [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 7:54 pm ]
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I always try to have a little bit of a firm hand shake with women and have gotten a lot of positive feedback from it. They are usually surprised and some women actually find it attractive. Try it out be a little firm just don't try to break her hand lol. I got this from David Deangelo's Advanced Series videos.

Author:  jurupa [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 5:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Handshake

When you go to shake a girl's hand shake it as if you where in a business setting, anything else is useless really in my opinion. As a firm solid handsake is the best hand shake you can give to anyone.

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