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| Author: | SmoothDok [ Tue Jan 25, 2011 10:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Aesthetics and being direct |
The easier it is for her to find you attractive, the better direct game will work. It staggers me how many people in the community aren't aware of the importance of aesthetics. Time and time again, i see guys who will put hours and hours of their lives into reading seduction material, but will not spend an hour getting ready, or one afternoon a month, picking the coolest clothes. If you are the best dressed man in the nightclub, that will get you more hole than any opener or routine... Girls will notice how you are dressed and if you look ultra cool, mega funky, then direct will work much better. Is your hair cut cool and funky? Do you have a tan? (not orange... just some colour) On a slightly more longer timescale, are you working out with weights? If not, why not??? Girls like guys with a good muscular upper body... So get some muscles. If they look good, why wouldn't you? Anyone can dramatically change their look by doing a little of what girls have been doign to themselves for years... Take a pride in your appearance. How do you think your approaches will differ when you know you are the best dressed man in the building? Throw the LED Belt Buckle in the bin. Another point i would like to make is that direct is not just about hitting on the girl. Direct is more of a mindset and you can use this in set to create attraction before hitting on the girl. For example... you can open a set. OK... so you open a set and as you are talking, rearrange the set to suit you: "I want to talk to you, so you stand over here and you come here...[physically rearrange the girls]. Now... what is your name?" "Let's drink a shot" [physically turn her body to the bar and order 2 shots ((order them direct of course... polite, but firm))] When you are talking, be the centre of attention... be the most dominant, loud, funny sexy (because of your clothes) fucker in the group... Any story you tell or conversation you have should be telling these girls that you are a direct dominant guy who always gets what he wants. The above things are direct, but they are not actually hitting on the girl. Direct is a lifestyle and a mindset... Every action i make is direct. When i make sales call, i am direct, when i buy a beer, I do it direct, when I have a wank, I am direct... In this way, when I choose to hit on a girl, i bring a kind of power than far exceeds a guy who has grown the balls to tell a girl he likes he |
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| Author: | SemperFlyMC [ Mon Jan 31, 2011 6:44 pm ] |
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As a rule of thumb, when I go out to a night club I wear what stands out. If you look around, most men wear dark colored clothes and avoid stand-out colors. Find a classy Calvin Klein shirt (or whatever brand/style you like) in purple, pink, or even red. Wear something with shiny pinstripes or that looks soft. White is an awesome color for a shirt, especially when there are black lights. Pick your own style of dress, but pay attention to colors. I don't wear glow sticks and light-up clothing, but women do respond well to this if you in the right situation (rave maybe?). I used to promote Jaegermeister at bars handing out free stuff. We had these little light up clip on buttons, necklaces and junk. I pinned them all over me as I was handing them out. One girl pointed to my crotch (where I had a light-up button) and said "I want that one." |
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