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| Author: | Cplkickass [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 10:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Intimidating other dudes. |
Alright, basically i really wanted to know if it's a positive when you intimidate other guys; ill give you a situation. last week i was in the cinema sitting next to this chick i really like, then my friend was like "oi man those dudes are bullying that indian kid" so i turned around and saw these three dudes leaning over this guy's chair throwing shit at him, just being fuckin douche bags. So im a strong and fit guy and i've genuinely believed for my entire life that i am the new jesus (i know, it's fucked up xD). i got pissed off at these guys bullying him so i grabbed a handfull of M&Ms and fucked them up. Okay so one of them turns around and throws an insult at me from a distance, i insulted him back alot worse (enough to make people in the viscinity go "OHHHH" and this guy looked really fuckin pissed off.) and then i was prepped for a fight, i smiled at him and cracked my knuckles and like stretched my legs etc. Basically i intimidated the Fuck out of this guy and he was too scared for the rest of the night to make eye contact or do anything back, he left halfway through the movie, without his friends too. (by the way guys, i can confirm that these guys were actual douche bags, the indian victim guy thanked me and said they bully him all the time at school, i am a good samaritan :D) Just wanted to know do you think situations like these would make the girl next to me find me more desireable or not? I dont want you guys to think im a douche who just goes around and tries to fight people, this is the first time ive been in a situation like this for a while, and i genuinely try to make friends with everyone i meet. Any Tips on general body language/voice tone etc. to make yourself seem more of an alpha male/intimidating person aswell? let's pretty much turn this into a post for learning to be a badass motherfucker! Thanks broskies. |
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| Author: | lalu [ Sun Jun 20, 2010 4:56 pm ] |
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First, tell the real story not the fairy tale. You should imrpove your inner game, you are trying to hard to show us how good you are, that's not good doing a show off. Really, you exaggerated, if you are strong and if you help to geeks you don't have to brag about it, you are trying way too hard. |
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| Author: | Cplkickass [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 7:20 am ] |
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'the fuck? Alright well let's go there then, ima tell the story in exact chronological order. Im talking to the girl, my friend yells from 2 seats down the row "oi those guys are bullying that indian kid" i throw m&ms at the bullies him one of them insults me, I insult him, he looks really pissed off/offended we lock eyes, I crack my knuckles, shake my legs etc. He breaks eye contact I continue as normal I see him leave halfway through the movie Next morning (it was a movie marathon) i see the indian guy on the bus back home, "dont worry man i had your back when those dudes were throwing m&ms at you" "thanks man they do it all the time to me at school" I go home. |
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| Author: | Vuvuzela [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 11:53 am ] |
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Hey I think what you did there is awesome, it also no doubt made a good impression on your girl. Girls like the idea of having a strong guy around them so that stuff is great to do. Just don't actively pick fights. Also don't become a sort of white knight, stand up for the weaker ones but stay a bit 'bad' if you know what I mean. You're not the 'nice guy'. |
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| Author: | Tundra [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 1:03 pm ] |
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Intimidating is great if you want to show others your insecurity, otherwise, the best offense is a good defense. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 8:58 am ] |
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Quote: Intimidating is great if you want to show others your insecurity, otherwise, the best offense is a good defense. They also say the best defensive is a good offense as well. There are times when one should intimidate another person. But that does not mean one needs to do it all the time.
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| Author: | anonymousdt [ Sun Jul 04, 2010 6:25 pm ] |
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It depends on the girl. Some girls might be impressed by that sequence of events. Most quality girls that I've met would not. A guy who is consistently aggressive towards other guys might eventually get a gun pulled on him or shanked while he's not looking (even if that guy is acting altruistically). A more appropriate solution to that problem might have been to walk up to the Indian guy and invite him to sit next to you, or near you. The other kids would probably stop. If they didn't then you could say something like "hey you almost hit me with that, stop it" with an aggressive tone. The cracking of the knuckles and shaking the leg is kind of corny, but apparently it got your point across. The best way to find out if she's impressed is to ask her in a non-egotistic way. You could say something like "look it really bothers me people pick on the little guy. I just acted instinctively. but i wanted to make sure you weren't uncomfortable. i don't go looking for trouble...etc." |
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| Author: | Don Juan 89 [ Fri Jul 09, 2010 6:46 am ] |
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How you told the story the first time is perfectly fine. In this case, yes it is perfectly fine. You were defending somebody. This is exactly what philosophers and governments have been trying to do for thousands of years. In this case, it is really admirable to anyone. If a girl doesn't think highly of that, she's an idiot. |
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| Author: | Divinus [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 1:38 am ] |
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Well, I think that throwing M&M's back at them is just childish. You should have first asked them politely to stop, they'll obviously say no, then proceed to physical intimidation. Would look better to the girl; like fighting fire with water. |
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| Author: | Daytime artist [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 3:51 pm ] |
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Quote: i've genuinely believed for my entire life that i am the new jesus (i know, it's fucked up xD)
If when you say "genuinely" you actually mean "genuinely", then yes, it's fucked up.Anyway, standing up for the underdog will ALWAYS impress a woman, as long as you're not an obnoxious jerk in the process. |
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| Author: | sparrow_pua [ Sat Jul 10, 2010 8:48 pm ] |
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Quote: Well, I think that throwing M&M's back at them is just childish. You should have first asked them politely to stop, they'll obviously say no, then proceed to physical intimidation. Would look better to the girl; like fighting fire with water.
That's my first instinct too, Divinus, but here's what I think would happen: You: "Knock it off, guys." Them: "Uh, or what?" You: *intimidation* (Let's say they aren't pussies.) Them: "You think you can take on the three of us you idiot?" So, stand your ground, you just picked a fight. Back down, you look like a wuss. Both ways you lose. There are two other ways: Anonymousdt wrote that you can invite the Indian guy to sit with you. If those guys keep at it, now those guys are the tools picking the fight with you. If they are just throwing M&Ms at you, though, are you going to punch them out? Still not sexy. The best way is invite the Indian kid to sit with you. If they continue to throw shit, go talk to the manager of the movie house or call the police and get the douche bags kicked out/arrested for assault and battery. If they clip someone in the eye with an M&M, what will happen? Those are like small stones. |
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| Author: | LancePUA [ Thu Jul 15, 2010 11:15 pm ] |
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Like the story man, Im only 5'6 and quite well built, but i have and ace up my sleeve, im a tahi fighter  , if u want to know how to do imtimidation body language watch UFC or any type or martial arts and watch then size up at the begining any guy thats see that backs the fuck down every time. Peace out lancePUA |
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| Author: | Riqueza [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 11:12 am ] |
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Cplkickass, Due to my work at a cinema i had to solve a lot of this kind of problems. Your way of solving the problem sucked because you didn't inspire them to be good, the only thing you were busy with was trying to look good yourselve by 'saving the poor child as a messiah'. The next time the guys will see him again will act the same way... Walk over and say something like: He guys... dont make it too messy, deal? And act like the other kid is your friend by giving him a smile or something. If they continue doing it, simply make them leave the setting. The girl will be highly impressed, even when its not the main goal to impress the ladies. Riqueza. |
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| Author: | redandwhite [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 4:57 pm ] |
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its really risky. If you are perceived as just trying to help that guy out, then it probably won't hurt you. What usually happens is that a guy (i've done it) will overdo it, or get into a drawn out alpha maleness battle that just makes you look worse and worse. Therefore I stay away from it. The exception is if a girl is getting picked on and can't handle it herself. |
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| Author: | shawnmichaels [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 5:33 pm ] |
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If OP's story is true then yeah, that was sick game. Only point I'd make is not to fire DUMB insults. |
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