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Author:  Incubus69 [ Sat Feb 21, 2009 8:15 pm ]
Post subject:  I think she was checking me out
I could be wrong here. However, in a book that I read if a girl looks at you with a smile, then looks away then looks back she thinks your cute. So, i go out my apartment and Michelle's friend - don't know her name. Looked at me like that. Michelle said Hi and I said Hey and went to smoke.

However, I don't know what kinda mood I was in. I know i took a shower - but my hair looked like I just woke up from bed. Also, I had a donut shirt saying "I'm running from the police".

Her friend was cute. :) However, I don't get why she was checking me out. I just cut my hair just like an hour ago. I could be misinterpreting everything once again - but it makes sense but back in the past I use to misinterpret things - so I'm kinda confused.

I mean, I wasn't dressed up fancy - I was just dressed up like I wear every day. A pair of jeans, no socks, a t-shirt, a key chain hanging from my pants belt hoop, kinda shaved which I have to shave again. My hair wasn't really combed.

So, I don't know what to make of this. ALso, I was at walgreens the other day and these group of girls were buying something. I was looking at some candy and a rose - don't ask me why. This cute girl looked at me and was smiling talking to her friend. A male friend of theirs looked at me and I looked at him - I was gonna say what's up. I think I did but can't remember. Then this cute blonde cashier when I got up to get my cigarettes had strong eye contact with me. My card didn't work because I didn't swipe it right and I was like, "God damn machines!" in a funny accent that I do on my tutorials on youtube that everyone loves. She laughed and as I talked to her more I recognized her pupils were large.

Maybe they see something I don't see in myself. Maybe I'm attractive and I just don't see that for some odd reason. Maybe I've became more relaxed and comfortable but somehow I dont see that beautiful being inside. Help me sort out of these thoughts inside. :) Thanks!
Author:  Cassian [ Sun Feb 22, 2009 3:04 pm ]
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A lot of this could have to do with the confidence you are displaying when you're standing, walking and talking. Do you think you're generally a confident person? That could be it. Or you could just be physically attractive.
Author:  Incubus69 [ Sun Feb 22, 2009 7:07 pm ]
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I think both. I like going out and talking to people, so I think that's why. Michelle asked me if her friend and her were too loud. I'm like - "uh, no why should i hear any loud music?" she said, "No...:)" "Ah, partying huh?" I told her as I was about to walk in my apartment. "No, party just girl talk. :)"

I don't know - Michelle might be lesbian or something but i heard from a friend that she thinks I'm cute and she likes me. However, her friend was checking me out. I walked down the hall where Michelle and Karen were taling and I was like, "Oh, shit another girl meeting - I better plug my ears!" she teased back, "Oh, paul this. paul that. paul..." "Michelle, sometimes you scare me! :)" She laughed.

So, I didn't know if you know how when girls get together they talk about the guys they like. I thought they were like having sex. But - don't know. They could've been talking. I'm not sure. It doesn't matter though.

This one chick told me online that I'm not ugly just not her type. I just shrugged my shoulders and moved on to the next person. I can only do street pick up with people I know. Warm Approaches - but cold approaches I'm not good at. :(
Author:  The Big Bad Wolf [ Sun Feb 22, 2009 9:45 pm ]
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warm approaches and Social Circle game seems more comfortable, I agree.

But hey, over to the topic;
You seem to be getting better at the Game, which leads to better non-verbal communication, as well as a more relaxed air around girls.
:D
It feels good, doesn't it ?


I may have missed something, but who's Michelle ?

It seems she likes you.
And it seems you've been getting IOIs from lots of chicks, so let it boost your confidence ;)
Next time you notice you might consider running a little game, just for fun :D

Michelle seems to be within your reach, ;) and you may just consider joining one of their little "girls nights" and, who knows, you may have a fun time if you throw a little game in both girls' direction .
Tease and play with them.

I'd say threesome, but that depends on the girls, so if both girls are interested (as it seems) you may just end up that way, if you're comfortable with it, of course.



But, hey, It's all good.
You're really improving when you start noticing these things.
(You can now start sarging the girls that are already interested, instead of just shots in the dark :D)
Author:  Incubus69 [ Mon Feb 23, 2009 1:15 am ]
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With Michelle, I wasn't really all interested - we talked acouple of times, I invited her over then she told me "Yeah, sure in the community room!" later on I talked to her and joked around abit. I asked her about that event. She told me that she has to watch what she does and blush. I guess therapists are brain washing her to be a goody too shoe.

A couple of days after that I heard from my friend Gary that Michelle was into me. I don't see her very often because she works. However, I do see she might have some trust issues. She sat in the smoking room and asked me what I'm doing for valentines. I told her I was having a girl come over. Which then turns out the girl didn't decide to come. Oh, well no big loss.

Also, I may have mentioned along time ago on this forum but this girl named Amy which calls me weird. I checked out her profile along time a go and said, "Nice madtv video! :)" She said, "Thanks, I try!" In my head, "That didn't make sense." It was funny what she said but it didn't make sense.

I wasn't trying to flirt with my team leader but maybe I did. She and I was talking and I said, "Where in the hell did you come from? One minute you're gone and the minute your POOF in the office? Where's your secret broom?" She said, "That's not very nice * laughs* calling me a witch!" "I didn't say you're a bitch - I just said u were a witch!" but it's fun joking around with her.

I also noticed is when I try hard - I lose, when I don't really care and just wanna be in the moment I'm fine. :)
Author:  The Big Bad Wolf [ Mon Feb 23, 2009 1:31 am ]
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;)
There's the trick.

Letting go, and not focusing on outcome.
Living in the moment type of thing ;)
Author:  silverito [ Mon Feb 23, 2009 11:10 pm ]
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people have different tastes, you can be attractive to some and not attractive to others. If you think you did not look attractive in your eyes it does not mean that you were not attractive in the eyes of those girls
pretty simple
Author:  -Achilles [ Sun Mar 08, 2009 9:06 am ]
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all of your excuses to justify your mistake on her being interested in you are based in looks.

You are forgetting that to a woman, a man's attractiveness in founded barely 20 to 30 percent on looks, being all the other your attitude, Body language, C&F, etc.

I can't even count how many times I got the girl without even thinking about it, and now that I'm in the game I see the patron on all those pick ups: I was confident enough to be the non-needy alpha male girl want. Read the sentence again, there's nothing about hairstyle or clothing there. Looks are only a bonus to help in the first steps of the pick up. And sometimes it's not ven needed there.
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