That's some solid advice, my I add my own two cents about "style of clothing"?
I think there's no 1 way of having a wardrobe, LITERALLY. Because I always have 2 ways of dressing myself for the occassion...let me explain:
Before meeting her
I dress like I always do - classy with a sporty touch...a dress shirt, not half down my pants like the 100% classy way demands, no hanging loosely over my pants + a fancy belt, and tennis shoes. It gives me a classy but young look - and since I know my colors, I can pull it off and appeal to both classy women, a little bit older women and younger, more active women as well.
But that's just because I don't know her that well yet, because I ahve an entirely different approach after I meet her...
After meeting her
After I've met a woman, got her phone number or whatever and can now talk with her basically whenever I want - I do my research, just like Casanova the world-class seducer did.
You see, what he would do was find out what her fantasies, her dreams are...and dress the part of her fantasies so the very sight of him would turn her on, would associate all kinds of positive feelings to him, would make her thing he's her dream come to life.
We all have our fantasies that never get played out, our shattered dreams - and you can seduce someone just by catering to fantasies, by letting someone PLAY IT OUT in real life...and that's what I do, just like Casanova.
Let me give you an example of how I've done this:
My current girlfriend LOVES everything there is about Italy, and is a secret junkie of gangster movies as well...so what did I do on our first date?
I wore a darkblue, shiny suit, with polished brown gentleman's shoes, a lightblue dress shirt and a beautiful pink silk tie with my hair greasy and pushed back - just like a mobster would dress.
You should see the look on her face - enchanted, mesmerized, instantly in love..
Afterwards, I took her to my place and made her Italian bread with pesto (it's like a spiced version of peanut better with only italian ingredients such as parmesan cheese, olive oil, etc.)...she wanted more slices of bread than I could make!
Etc.
Do you see what I'm doing here? I'm tailoring myself to her fantasies, and ended up in bed with her that very same day. The costs? Expensive suit huh...nope, I borrowed it. The date cost me $1.50..and she's still my girlfriend.
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