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Author:  nermob [ Wed Dec 10, 2008 8:25 pm ]
Post subject:  ALPHA LANGUAGE works. And the HBs notice!
Ever since I started applying pua techniques, among other things I've been concentrating on being more alpha in my language (both spoken and text) which used to be quite weak. I've examined how I've said things in the past an switched key phrasing out for more confident/strong phrasing. Basically, you want to ask less and assume more. For example, instead of texting an HB and saying:

"Hey, are you busy on saturday? [wait for response] I was thinking of going to ***, you want to go? [wait for response]"

NOW I say:
"Hey, I'm going to ***. It's going to be crazy. You can come w! meet me at 8, k?"

An invite like this is has been very effective for me and works well in text and on the phone. Flakage is minimal, especially compared to my old AFC ways.

THE HBs NOTICE THIS
I've known this HB for quite a while now as part of a social circle. I'm just now learning and applying the PUA techniques so I don't want to go crazy all at once on her and scare her off and end up losing face in the group. I have been building tension, push-pulling, C/F, kino, all the good stuff. And of course, using ALPHA LANGUAGE.

The other day, she said to me "You know, it's funny how you phrase things. You never ask or invite, you always just kinda give people permission to do stuff with you." She said it with a big smile and and a giggle at the end so she doesn't view it negatively. In fact I can now see that she (and all normal women) likes it when a man takes the lead. Later that day I texted her and I said "My friends and I are doing *** on Saturday. You can meet me there at 1pm, what do you think?" In about 5 seconds, she responded "Sounds like a plan! c u there :)"

MORAL
Do not push. Seldom ask. Lead, and you will be followed.
Author:  nermob [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:26 am ]
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Nobody has any thoughts on this? Do you disagree/concur/have something to add?
Author:  com.solo [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 8:59 pm ]
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Definitely agree.
Author:  sorin93 [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 1:00 am ]
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yea i've been using similar techniques. this stuff does work. language affects how you are perceived by the others around you. if you talk like the confident man you are, then everyone else will notice your confidence.
Author:  skateitsgreat [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 5:31 pm ]
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Interesting observation, makes good sense too.
Author:  AceofSpades07 [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 9:41 pm ]
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This is absolutley true and not just in how you talk. You can take this approach to your body language, how you walk into a room and everything else you do. Well put
Author:  DesertHighway [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 7:25 am ]
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I like this idea, there seems to be very little focus on what you actually say and how you word yourself in pu...nice post, I'm going to work on this :)
Author:  Drakelet [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 10:38 am ]
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It was one of the first things I realised after looking into Alpha stuff. And yeah, it works good. :) With guys too I've found. Everyone loves a leader.
Author:  Agent Whore 32 [ Wed Dec 31, 2008 11:10 am ]
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friggin excellent, this will be my new way of speaking
Author:  cn_bn [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 2:13 am ]
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Nice, ill try to start applying it.
Author:  kimura88 [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 11:28 am ]
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yeh that's awesome, it makes a lot of sense, but what if you're meeting up and it's just going to be the two of you? it's hard to say "i'm going to xyz place and it's gonna be off the hook! you can come, see you at..." when you would have been by yourself if she didn't come lol.. any suggestions?
Author:  zhukaching [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 7:00 pm ]
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hey man i think its a good observation, it really gives me a better idea =]
Author:  backdoor man [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 2:22 am ]
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yeh that's awesome, it makes a lot of sense, but what if you're meeting up and it's just going to be the two of you? it's hard to say "i'm going to xyz place and it's gonna be off the hook! you can come, see you at..." when you would have been by yourself if she didn't come lol.. any suggestions?
haha, yeah. This is true, I think I would do something like this

-Hey I'm gonna go to ___, your my lucky date
Author:  daggaz [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 1:49 pm ]
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haha, yeah. This is true, I think I would do something like this

-Hey I'm gonna go to ___, your my lucky date
Yeah but that one can backfire on you if the girl isnt hooked well, as it is a bit pushy and really sets her up for knocking you back down a notch. "Who does he think he is, telling me who I pick? What a cocky bastard" ---> "Sorry, Im busy with my gf's, good luck getting a date."

In general, it is best to just give the invite "you can come, be there at 8" or whatever, and there you can still give the push vibe with "be there" but its played down, almost to where they dont notice it, which is perfect.
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