It gets natural with time, practice is key, try relaxing a bit more
Don't use scripted shit all the time, be creative and use things around you to create topics, use your personality.
I really hope that helped
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| Author: | kulture [ Fri Mar 14, 2008 8:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Physically tired of talking after 20 mins |
Does anyone get this problem? I get physically tired of talking non stop and my voice just gets lower as time progresses. It's exhausting and my attention gradually drift away, and I want to eject asap. Is this a matter of lack of practice? How long does it take to get over this problem? |
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| Author: | Rotor [ Fri Mar 14, 2008 1:55 pm ] |
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Ask more questions. It's supposed to be a conversation, not a lecture. EXCHANGE information don't just give it. If you're talking for 20 mins STRAIGHT, you're doing something wrong. |
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| Author: | Durus [ Fri Mar 14, 2008 4:25 pm ] |
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Yeah, I'm going to agree with Rotor here. You should be controlling the conversation during the first few phases and doing a good deal of the talking, but not ALL the talking. If she's not interested enough in you to contribute to the conversation after 20 minutes then I say eject. |
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| Author: | The_Chameleon [ Fri Mar 14, 2008 6:53 pm ] |
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Actions speak lowder than words. You can't just blabla all the time (20mins? id be dead). Gotta be physical too, break her shields fast like a real PUA, and get closer physically. Not like boring AFC. If she's not interrested, you're doing it wrong, attraction is not a choice. |
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| Author: | kulture [ Fri Mar 14, 2008 10:33 pm ] |
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I don't talk for 20 mins straight (that's impossible for me!). I interact with her for 20 minutes, then feel exhausted. Constantly thinking of routines and topics when the conversation stalls is DRAINING me. But if I don't CONSCIOUSLY think of "the NEXT step", I go back to my old AFC ways and fail to close. How long does it take until the process feels natural and not exhausting? |
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| Author: | The_Chameleon [ Sat Mar 15, 2008 12:43 am ] |
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It gets natural with time, practice is key, try relaxing a bit more Don't use scripted shit all the time, be creative and use things around you to create topics, use your personality. I really hope that helped |
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| Author: | Juice24 [ Mon Mar 17, 2008 11:06 am ] |
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Yeah, exactly..but you have to increase your stamina, mystery says that the attraction phaze takes 3-5mins after the opener, neg, dhv..so you should trying to figure something out that works for you in that time interval |
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| Author: | Simpua [ Mon Apr 07, 2008 5:58 pm ] |
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20 minutes straight is way too long for you to be talking. Why are you even talking to a set for 20 minutes straight? I don't know the specific details but unless I manage an instant date my sets don't usually last that long before I've moved on; either after having # closed or planning on returning to the set later. |
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