I'm basically getting pretty close to a good friend (she came out of a relationship about 2 months ago). We've only started like hanging out for a few weeks and I've slowly been getting more touchy every time I see her.
I've been round to her house pretty much once a week for the past 3 weeks.
We always tend to sit and end up like touching arms and shoulders, I know that's a good sign.
Week 1
I started playing with her hair and she liked it and stayed leant forward letting me play with it.
Week 2
She had the laptop on her knee and I had my wrist resting on her hand as I operated the laptop, other hand gently stroking her bare thigh. She said "I don't usually let people touch me without a reason, but I feel very relaxed" an hour previously she was telling me about a 'guy'friend who told her he likes her and tried to kiss her a few days ago and freaked her out. He lived very far and she was staying with him for a few days. That to me felt a shield/warning for me to back off or break through. I think I broke through. She asked "Do you stroke all of your friends?" I said "no, just you and Mike" She laughed of course.
Week 3
We was watching a few films on her bed, I started stoking her back, and arms. After a bit she lay back with her arm out towards me with her wrist showing and her neck lent the other way exposing her neck (I know this is very submissive) I was stroking her arms and wrists gently, and then her neck, ear lobes and face and like top of chest but not quite boob. If it wasn't for the 'guy crossing the line' speech I'd of probably been all systems go and started kissing her shoulder, neck and so on. She turned her head to me and looked me in the eyes and said "You're very handsi today" (from stroking her hands) So I just looked into her eyes, smiled and said "More than usual?" She got tired so I said "we'll go sleep now", she said "Oh you're staying?" she was happy to let me stay in the bed. She slept in her knickers and a little top, but she was like "Do not try and spoon me!" I was still stroking her like, but when I stroked down her body and over her bum she gave me a little warning away, and asked me to play with hair.
In the morning I pretty much continued touching her and had my arm like over her tickling her back and a tint of bum
Then her child tried to come in so she pretty much got up and went in got in bed with her 3 year old daughter. I let myself out then and went to work. So yeah was pretty much touching constant for hours and hours.
I don't want a relationship and neither does she. We're really good friends and have a lot in common. I just want it to be sexual too, I think she doesn't want me to get strong feelings for her, although I'd never tell her if I did. I've got this with another girl too who I don't see as much anymore, she's my best friend but we have sex and nobody knows about it lol
Please advise..
What you think is going on here?
I'm wayy in her comfort zone and I don't think I can possibly ever get friendzoned without me still sub-consciously trying it on.
Please also let me know if I'm actually doing well about all this too, I think I am to be honest but I know women can change in seconds.
Thanks for reading guys! Peace
