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Author:  dickolaus [ Sun Mar 09, 2014 12:49 am ]
Post subject:  Advice on eye contact techniques?

Hey I've been reading a lot about the ways that eye contact can help in attracting a girl and I was curious what others had to say about it.

I've heard that triangle gazing is one of the best known sexual triggers but I'm not sure if its better than hard, straight-on eye contact. Any assistance/opinions?

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Mar 09, 2014 12:11 pm ]
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Learn to eye fuck.

My first quote below discusses the why. My second quote discusses the how.
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Why the Eyefuck Routine Works

Warped Mindless observed that a lot of PUAs underestimate the power of the eyefuck or laser eyes as he calls it in his ESP Escalation Model. Slywalker and Chief certainly discussed the benefits of the eyefuck in their respective threads. Unfortunately, I got information overload when I studied these threads. But in the case of WM's thread, the eyefuck was emphasized really well. The ESP Escalation Model is lean and mean in my opinion.

The other threads discussing the benefits of the eyefuck are:
In the scientific study by Tombs and Silverman, Pupillometry: A sexual selection approach, in the Journal of Evolution and Human Behavior 25 (2004) 221–228, they found out that a man's sexual attractiveness among women (when the pupils of his eyes dilated to the largest size) increased by more than 60%.

The study discussed two methods in two parts consisting of 30 women in the first method and 60 women in the second method. The mean age of women in the first study was 22.67 while in the second study, the mean age was 20.62 years old.

The researchers correlated large pupil sizes among men with sexual arousal. They also found out that women who got attracted most to men with the largest pupils preferred the bad boy type. To quote, "In the present study, females who exhibited preferences for male photos showing heightened sexual arousal also revealed preferences for bad boys as dating partners." (p. 226).

Conclusion

The eyefuck routine is one good way to build your sexual attractiveness by more than 60%. Why? It makes you look like a bad boy which makes women horny.

Let's discuss. :twisted:
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its very confusing but i can understand it a bit,thank you Mr.Hellhound :)you are very helpful
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The idea is to dilate your pupils (make it grow big) so it occupies 80% to 90% of your iris. When a woman sees that your pupils are big, her pupils will likewise grow bigger which will occupy some 80% to 90% of her iris.

So how do you make your pupils grow big? While looking into the girl's eyes, imagine fucking her brains out. Do not look at any of her erotic body parts and focus only on the girl's eyes. Sometimes, the girl's pupils will just occupy 50% of her iris but will eye fuck you still. This means that you are not horny enough and the girl is simply mirroring your sexual state.

If you are horny enough, the girl will likewise be horny enough enabling you to sexually escalate faster either through touch (kino) or words (sexual innuendos).

Personally, I put shiny things near my cock area. When a girl looks at my crotch, it usually triggers her pupils to grow and occupy the irises from 50% to 80%. Funny thing is, when I started putting shiny things near my cock, more girls are saying straight to my face that I'm handsome or "I love you" even those girls I haven't f-closed yet. Based on girls' body language, I think "You're handsome" is girlie speake for "I want your cock inside my pussy."

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Author:  crazycoolo [ Tue Jun 10, 2014 2:58 am ]
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what exactly do you mean by putting shiny things by your cock loll?

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 4:46 pm ]
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what exactly do you mean by putting shiny things by your cock loll?
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Author:  Digital_Spy [ Fri Jun 13, 2014 10:59 pm ]
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What a load of fucking crap. Try fucking her with your eyes and you're gonna look like a freakin pyscho. Christ the smell of desperation on here just to get your cock into a girl is fucking embarrassing. Desperate, desperate, desperate. You're just scaring the girls off because you 'ain't being subtle at all. Who needs some jumped up fucking little jerk just thinking about his dick the whole time. These girls can spot losers a mile away you morons.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jun 14, 2014 12:21 pm ]
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What a load of fucking crap. Try fucking her with your eyes and you're gonna look like a freakin pyscho. Christ the smell of desperation on here just to get your cock into a girl is fucking embarrassing. Desperate, desperate, desperate. You're just scaring the girls off because you 'ain't being subtle at all. Who needs some jumped up fucking little jerk just thinking about his dick the whole time. These girls can spot losers a mile away you morons.
Nah. It's like this.

When you see a woman give you an approach invitation cue like repeatedly stealing glances at your hard, throbbing cock which appears to burst out of your pants, close the distance some 3 or 4 feet. If the woman does not pull or move back to keep her personal space and then smiles at you, you look deep into the woman's eyes while saying, "Hi." or say nothing at all.

When she smiles and looks down and then look backs up again deep into your eyes, you continue looking into her eyes. While doing this, imagine sucking on her clitoris and flicking your tongue around her vaginal hole. You imagine munching on her labias as well and then sucking her body fluids from her vaginal opening.

Next, you imagine pulling out your cock, spitting onto it and then rubbing the head or your penis on her clitoris until her clit gets an erection and her labias engorge and voluntarily open up. You then imagine rubbing your penis head at her labias and just right outside her vaginal entrance. You tease her by rotating your cock and not putting it in right away. You keep on teasing her until she begs you to put your cock in.

And once you put your dick in, bang her pussy as fast as you can with 50 strokes. Then go slow and deep with 10 thrusts. Then you bang her as fast as you can again with 50 strokes. Then go slow and deep with 10 thrusts. That's 2 sets. You'll need 10 sets of this.

After you complete the 10 sets, bang her pussy as fast as you can with 100 strokes. Then go slow and deep with 5 thrusts. You'll need 5 sets of this.

After you complete the 5 sets, eat her pussy again. Everything of these are in your imagination of course while you're looking deep into her eyes. Don't look at her cleavage. Don't look at her hand. Don't look at people around. Just look into her eyes.

Very Important Side Note: When you're eyefucking her for 3 minutes or so and the girl keeps on eyefucking you back like you're the only two people in the whole world, hold her hand. If she pulls her hand back, don't let go and pull her closer. Do NOT break eye contact. If she doesn't resist the second time, you're good. If she resists the second time, let go and go through the motions of ejecting.

When you see that look on her face that says, "Don't leave." Repeat the process described above. It's simple push-pull. Be VERY patient. Girls heat up gradually; if not very slowly. If you can execute this nonverbal routine properly, you can make a girl's pussy wet just by looking into her eyes and holding her hand.

However, should you see that look on her face that says, "Fuck off." Just eject and sarge her some other time.

Author:  Myk [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 12:01 am ]
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I agree with these techniques and they're wonderful. For practice, try counting how much times someone blinks. It helps and pretty soon you won't even remember that was your original objective. Without eye contact, you lose the trust of many. As a man, it's essential.

Author:  The Mellow [ Wed Jun 25, 2014 9:58 pm ]
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I agree with these techniques and they're wonderful. For practice, try counting how much times someone blinks. It helps and pretty soon you won't even remember that was your original objective. Without eye contact, you lose the trust of many. As a man, it's essential.
That's a cool trick. Going to use that tomorrow at work with the ladies and others.

This article on eye contact is the tits.

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2012/02/1 ... -and-love/

Peace.

Author:  GamesSN [ Wed Jun 25, 2014 10:07 pm ]
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A general rule for eye contact is when you focus on their left eye it's friendly. When you focus on their right eye it's indicative of your interest in them and theirs in you. Unconsciously we look to people's right eye if we find them attractive and their left eye if we're conversing normally. I forget the reason behind this but it's fairly solid. Check it out for yourself.

So, next time you're locking eyes with someone take note of which eye you're focusing on and which of yours they're focusing on. If you switch from left to right you're unconsciously telling them you're into them. They pick up on this without being aware of it.

Personally I found it to be a piece of mind to be aware of what I was doing unconsciously. I became more relaxed knowing that when I focused on their left eye I wasn't coming on too strong, I came across as friendly then after a point I would switch eyes and focus on the right after enough comfort and rapport.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 11:38 am ]
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A general rule for eye contact is when you focus on their left eye it's friendly. When you focus on their right eye it's indicative of your interest in them and theirs in you. Unconsciously we look to people's right eye if we find them attractive and their left eye if we're conversing normally. I forget the reason behind this but it's fairly solid. Check it out for yourself.

So, next time you're locking eyes with someone take note of which eye you're focusing on and which of yours they're focusing on. If you switch from left to right you're unconsciously telling them you're into them. They pick up on this without being aware of it.

Personally I found it to be a piece of mind to be aware of what I was doing unconsciously. I became more relaxed knowing that when I focused on their left eye I wasn't coming on too strong, I came across as friendly then after a point I would switch eyes and focus on the right after enough comfort and rapport.
Solid technique GamesSN. Thanks for sharing.

Author:  The Mellow [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 10:37 am ]
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A general rule for eye contact is when you focus on their left eye it's friendly. When you focus on their right eye it's indicative of your interest in them and theirs in you. Unconsciously we look to people's right eye if we find them attractive and their left eye if we're conversing normally. I forget the reason behind this but it's fairly solid. Check it out for yourself.

So, next time you're locking eyes with someone take note of which eye you're focusing on and which of yours they're focusing on. If you switch from left to right you're unconsciously telling them you're into them. They pick up on this without being aware of it.

Personally I found it to be a piece of mind to be aware of what I was doing unconsciously. I became more relaxed knowing that when I focused on their left eye I wasn't coming on too strong, I came across as friendly then after a point I would switch eyes and focus on the right after enough comfort and rapport.
Thanks for sharing that SN. I believe that to be true, do you have any articles or references on that? I'd like to read into it more.

Cheers

Author:  GamesSN [ Fri Jul 11, 2014 5:57 am ]
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A general rule for eye contact is when you focus on their left eye it's friendly. When you focus on their right eye it's indicative of your interest in them and theirs in you. Unconsciously we look to people's right eye if we find them attractive and their left eye if we're conversing normally. I forget the reason behind this but it's fairly solid. Check it out for yourself.

So, next time you're locking eyes with someone take note of which eye you're focusing on and which of yours they're focusing on. If you switch from left to right you're unconsciously telling them you're into them. They pick up on this without being aware of it.

Personally I found it to be a piece of mind to be aware of what I was doing unconsciously. I became more relaxed knowing that when I focused on their left eye I wasn't coming on too strong, I came across as friendly then after a point I would switch eyes and focus on the right after enough comfort and rapport.
Thanks for sharing that SN. I believe that to be true, do you have any articles or references on that? I'd like to read into it more.

Cheers

One of the first things that popped up on a google search: http://howtogetdates.wordpress.com/2009 ... g-to-look/

Author:  The Mellow [ Sun Jul 13, 2014 9:06 pm ]
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A general rule for eye contact is when you focus on their left eye it's friendly. When you focus on their right eye it's indicative of your interest in them and theirs in you. Unconsciously we look to people's right eye if we find them attractive and their left eye if we're conversing normally. I forget the reason behind this but it's fairly solid. Check it out for yourself.

So, next time you're locking eyes with someone take note of which eye you're focusing on and which of yours they're focusing on. If you switch from left to right you're unconsciously telling them you're into them. They pick up on this without being aware of it.

Personally I found it to be a piece of mind to be aware of what I was doing unconsciously. I became more relaxed knowing that when I focused on their left eye I wasn't coming on too strong, I came across as friendly then after a point I would switch eyes and focus on the right after enough comfort and rapport.
Thanks for sharing that SN. I believe that to be true, do you have any articles or references on that? I'd like to read into it more.

Cheers

One of the first things that popped up on a google search: http://howtogetdates.wordpress.com/2009 ... g-to-look/
Awesome. Thanks for sharing that SN. Definitely noted. I thought about it for myself when women look in my right or left eye and I find them to be more attractive when they look in my right eye also.

Author:  GamesSN [ Mon Jul 14, 2014 6:24 pm ]
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I use it all the time. Perfect example would be last night. I wasn't too sure if she was into me or not as latinas are generally really touchy feely in general so I started making more deliberate eye contact, specifically her right eye. She noticed the shift and reciprocated. Obviously when she realised I was expressing signs of interest she got a bit nervous and this was reflected in her posture weakening with herbut I followed through and took lead in the conversation. After about ten minutes of that she was the one kissing me and hooked on me all night.

Author:  falboe [ Thu Aug 07, 2014 5:27 pm ]
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Good graphic, thanks for share :)

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