| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Body Language: Hand holding rub. https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=19&t=156928 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | TeamXlink [ Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Body Language: Hand holding rub. |
I was on a date, at the movie theater, despite being very nervous about doing so, I thought "She won't lead, I have too. I have nothing to lose." So I held her hand. Our fingers were intertwined, with my hand on top with the palm facing into her palm. Her hands are a decent amount smaller then mine. The whole time though, she would rub my hand and fingers with one of hers, she would take her thumb and brush it along mine, and her other fingers as well. (With the same hand that I was holding.) I did the same thing to her after she started doing it, but I'm not sure if it was successful or not. I'm not sure what to make of the sign, if anything. What are your opinions? |
|
| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Wed Feb 20, 2013 9:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Body Language: Hand holding rub. |
Quote: I was on a date, at the movie theater, despite being very nervous about doing so, I thought "She won't lead, I have too. I have nothing to lose." So I held her hand.
Our fingers were intertwined, with my hand on top with the palm facing into her palm. Her hands are a decent amount smaller then mine. The whole time though, she would rub my hand and fingers with one of hers, she would take her thumb and brush it along mine, and her other fingers as well. (With the same hand that I was holding.) I did the same thing to her after she started doing it, but I'm not sure if it was successful or not. I'm not sure what to make of the sign, if anything. What are your opinions? Should have fucked her.... That was interest and there is no doubt about it. Think of it this way when a woman has sex on the brain she strokes phallic signals, in this case the woman was stroking your thumb, which is a long slender phallic symbol. You should have escalated and kissed her passionately. I have an episode of my DSLM show where I talk about it. Phallic Symbol Stroke <-Click here to watch it. Peace and Love, Vic |
|
| Author: | Octave [ Wed Feb 27, 2013 3:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Body Language: Hand holding rub. |
Definitely should have gone in for the kiss, even though its kinda cheesy in a theater, she clearly wanted it. You had 1. in the theater 2. Outside the theater when at you're car 3. Walking her to you're door. Dont worry about it though, there is always next time. A k-close will be successful a lot more often then you think it would so long as there are signs adding up to it |
|
| Author: | MavenPhaseshift [ Thu Feb 28, 2013 6:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Body Language: Hand holding rub. |
This is a specific interest she has in you she is willing to touch you and escalate on you briefly. With out other info it is hard to tell to much from the hand, since this is so basic of a touch. You two massaging your hands is good. Does she back away when you are near her face is she enthusiastic about moving. did you touch anywhere else. Yes this is a great prelude to a kiss. But you still have to escalate to get to the kiss. It isn't like she massaged my thumb, must drop pants right now to give her what she really wants. There is more to it. To answer your question. Yes, it worked. NOW ESCALATE!!! |
|
| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Fri Mar 01, 2013 1:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Body Language: Hand holding rub. |
Quote: This is a specific interest she has in you she is willing to touch you and escalate on you briefly. With out other info it is hard to tell to much from the hand, since this is so basic of a touch.
You don't need any other information... she went out with him. Escalated and stroked his finger. She wanted to fuck him. Why would you need anything else? Body language isn't complicated don't make it so. What message isn't clear here?You two massaging your hands is good. Does she back away when you are near her face is she enthusiastic about moving. did you touch anywhere else. Yes this is a great prelude to a kiss. But you still have to escalate to get to the kiss. It isn't like she massaged my thumb, must drop pants right now to give her what she really wants. There is more to it. To answer your question. Yes, it worked. NOW ESCALATE!!! Obviously it's not a pants drop now but if he would have escalated properly he would have fucked her. Don't just pull out your willy right there. Body language is one thing I'm fairly certain of and all he needed to do was to look at her like he wanted to kiss her (eye to eye to lips - repeat) and when she shows compliance with her body language (she'll know as long as you think about kissing her the whole time) then all you need is to go for the kiss. That is all you need when the attraction is this strong and yes this is a strong form of attraction. You should always follow the natural escalation process my point was to illustrate how strong her attraction was to him... so strong in fact she wanted to fuck him. Don't worry about it man... I understand attraction when it comes to body language very well. Peace and Love, Vic |
|
| Author: | christopherphilip [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 12:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Body Language: Hand holding rub. |
Yes, interest, of course. Much to learn my friend! Would she stroke her brothers hand like that? Keep learn'n! |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|