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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Fri Jan 04, 2013 6:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Short guys:few tips |
I'm short and I want to give a few tips. I don't get every tall girl but I've had quite a few. I know many short guys who get social anxiety around taller girls or being not as confident w taller guy friends gaming girls. You'll read on any Pua that appearance is important but being short it really has to be. You're short so you already different so be as different as possible. Tattoos shaved head and hit the gym. Be in the best shape you can as possible. You might not be tall but you have to work w what you are given in life. I'm 28 and i have layed many girls. Tallest has been 5'9 1/2. Don't ever shoot yourself down if you want it go out there and make it happen. Talking to tall girl tips: Usually girls like to bring up height during conversation face to face/online. Don't bring it up but if they do be prepared. Act as if her height doesn't phase you. Girls tend to be blunt and ask me how tall I am.. I respond always w something funny like '' don't worry I'm big where it counts''. Ask her back how tall she is and respond w '' I love tall girls'' when she asks why tell her bc you like girls w long legs. Tips: 1.)gym and eat right 2.)tattoos w meaning 3.)developed your own style. Whether it may be stick w it. 5.)*hint* Sneaker and shoe lifts. You can actually be 2-4inches taller. I use business cards under my Soles its not noticeable unless u r w the same people that see u everyday. This mainly should be use for bar pickup seeing you won't have to take your shoes off until the end of the night when you are getting what you want. ( usually your friends don't notice anyways that you're taller). |
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| Author: | AfricanAmber [ Fri Jan 04, 2013 6:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Quote: I'm short and I want to give a few tips. I don't get every tall girl but I've had quite a few. I know many short guys who get social anxiety around taller girls or being not as confident w taller guy friends gaming girls. You'll read on any Pua that appearance is important but being short it really has to be. You're short so you already different so be as different as possible. Tattoos shaved head and hit the gym. Be in the best shape you can as possible. You might not be tall but you have to work w what you are given in life. I'm 28 and i have layed many girls. Tallest has been 5'9 1/2. Don't ever shoot yourself down if you want it
go out there and make it happen. Talking to tall girl tips: Usually girls like to bring up height during conversation face to face/online. Don't bring it up but if they do be prepared. Act as if her height doesn't phase you. Girls tend to be blunt and ask me how tall I am.. I respond always w something funny like '' don't worry I'm big where it counts''. Ask her back how tall she is and respond w '' I love tall girls'' when she asks why tell her bc you like girls w long legs. Tips: 1.)gym and eat right 2.)tattoos w meaning 3.)developed your own style. Whether it may be stick w it. 5.)*hint* Sneaker and shoe lifts. You can actually be 2-4inches taller. I use business cards under my Soles its not noticeable unless u r w the same people that see u everyday. This mainly should be use for bar pickup seeing you won't have to take your shoes off until the end of the night when you are getting what you want. ( usually your friends don't notice anyways that you're taller). First of all, OP, how tall are you? LOL Second of all, LOL AT THE BUSINESS CARDS. Third of all, SARGE ON! |
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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Fri Jan 04, 2013 6:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
5'3 1/2. Honestly can be whatever jus Gotta make sure it's hidden. I'm a good 5'6 a my shoes. Def helps |
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| Author: | amateurhour21 [ Fri Jan 04, 2013 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
I loved this post I for sure get social anxiety when I'm around girls who are taller than me. I've learned as of recent self confidence is overrides any type of height or looks. |
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| Author: | The Joker S [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 2:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Thanks man , I find this very helpful at 5'6. Though I am a little confused what you mean by buisness cards on your shoes, you mean the inside of the heel obvs? |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 5:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
I find any obsession like this to be a big problem, rather than create 2 and half inches in your height why not create it in how you feel about yourself rather than consistently adding to the bottom of your shoes. I am very against not loving yourself regardless of your imperfections. I agree with your reaction play it off, I on the other hand would say something like "don't you think that is a little personal? I'd rather show you" when asked about my height. I'd disagree immensely on the whole tattoo makes you appear taller if it means something mentality. The one bare essential thing you missed is body language. Body language can make you look A LOT bigger. -Straight long spinal chord, creating great posture. -Wide shoulders that take up space hold them high but relaxed. -Wide stance that takes up space. -Illustrators to take up more space. -Movements and body language that takes up more space, making you appear bigger. -Complimenting people has been shown to make people be remembered as taller, more athletic, and attractive, learning to grant a good compliment and you can go a long way. Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 2:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Who's to say I'm not myself w a few inches added on? Trust me man when you are short like me....use the shoe trick. The whole confidence aspect/body language yes very important but I'm not just avg height I'm really short. Every inch or so matters when you are 5'3 no Ifs ands or butts about it. Call it fair or cheating on the game but I am here to help other short guys like me w extreme odds(height). It's not gonna matter how tall you are when they leave your place after you already f-closed. As far as your response to them asking how tall you are? Not really my style. Avoiding the topic and/or make them laugh works the best(feel free to use my line). You guys got any other questions post up and I'll answer to the best I can. |
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| Author: | Aaron2012 [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 4:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Quote: I find any obsession like this to be a big problem, rather than create 2 and half inches in your height why not create it in how you feel about yourself rather than consistently adding to the bottom of your shoes. I am very against not loving yourself regardless of your imperfections.
he is building on how he feels about himself by the shoes, just like the women with makeup. i see nothing wrong about it
I agree with your reaction play it off, I on the other hand would say something like "don't you think that is a little personal? I'd rather show you" when asked about my height. I'd disagree immensely on the whole tattoo makes you appear taller if it means something mentality. The one bare essential thing you missed is body language. Body language can make you look A LOT bigger. -Straight long spinal chord, creating great posture. -Wide shoulders that take up space hold them high but relaxed. -Wide stance that takes up space. -Illustrators to take up more space. -Movements and body language that takes up more space, making you appear bigger. -Complimenting people has been shown to make people be remembered as taller, more athletic, and attractive, learning to grant a good compliment and you can go a long way. Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 6:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Quote: Quote: I find any obsession like this to be a big problem, rather than create 2 and half inches in your height why not create it in how you feel about yourself rather than consistently adding to the bottom of your shoes. I am very against not loving yourself regardless of your imperfections.
he is building on how he feels about himself by the shoes, just like the women with makeup. i see nothing wrong about itI agree with your reaction play it off, I on the other hand would say something like "don't you think that is a little personal? I'd rather show you" when asked about my height. I'd disagree immensely on the whole tattoo makes you appear taller if it means something mentality. The one bare essential thing you missed is body language. Body language can make you look A LOT bigger. -Straight long spinal chord, creating great posture. -Wide shoulders that take up space hold them high but relaxed. -Wide stance that takes up space. -Illustrators to take up more space. -Movements and body language that takes up more space, making you appear bigger. -Complimenting people has been shown to make people be remembered as taller, more athletic, and attractive, learning to grant a good compliment and you can go a long way. Peace and Love, Vic But what happens when the shoes come off in the bedroom???? That is my point, the worst possible moment to get insecure is when the shoes come off. You need to get used to your imperfections, hiding them momentarily doesn't get rid of them, being ok with them when you are wearing shoes doesn't help sorry, I find putting a band aid on a leaky pipe to be a mistake. Help at the root of the problem, don't put off the insecurity, get used to your imperfection and get over it. Height only effects you if you allow it, with good presence your height gets remembered as much taller, I had someone think I am 6-1 ft and I'm only 5'8(round up), so yes holding yourself well is more important than adding a business card or two to your shoes. Good body language makes you appear bigger. Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 4:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
If you read this article you would see it's for bar pick-up. Obviously, if it was someone i was planning on seeing after that night it would be hard to hide it. By the time I have the chick at my place she's already ready for the f-close and it's not even noticAble when the shoes come off. It's dark/not far to my bedroom etc. Its nOt like walking the length of a football field to my bedroom. And I'm very secure with myself(I've Held many long term relationships) with or without this method and this method does work. Anywho, not here to argue w anyone . Putting this method out their for short guys like myself. Game on. |
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| Author: | Rosewood [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 11:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Good stuff man. I am 5'9 and turned a 6'+ish girl into an FB for north of 8 months. Funny thing is, I also am quite fit and have some meaningful tattoos (she always did like to comment on my arms). Definitely agree it's all about confidence. She will only feel weird about your height, if you feel weird about hers. If she is just another girl to you, then more likely than not that is the vibe she'll pick-up. |
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| Author: | amateurhour21 [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 12:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
There's this book called Grow Taller 4 Idiots that's supposed to fix the way your spine is through stretching exercises & diet. Now I'm not sure if this book can actually make you taller anybody have any experience with it? I'm a little less than 5'7 & comfortable with my height but if something could help my mentality is why not stop being lazy & do it. |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 6:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Quote: If you read this article you would see it's for bar pick-up. Obviously, if it was someone i was planning on seeing after that night it would be hard to hide it. By the time I have the chick at my place she's already ready for the f-close and it's not even noticAble when the shoes come off. It's dark/not far to my bedroom etc. Its nOt like walking the length of a football field to my bedroom.
I don't care what it is for (bar pick up or any other), putting a band aid on a leaky pipe DOES NOT FIX IT. I understand your heart was in the right place but a tattoo that means something DOES NOT make you appear taller, how the hell could it? What the hell? Why would you advertise to anyone to put a permanent mark on themselves so that they can appear taller when it literally has zero to do with height.And I'm very secure with myself(I've Held many long term relationships) with or without this method and this method does work. Anywho, not here to argue w anyone . Putting this method out their for short guys like myself. Game on. Second of all while you do seem very self-confident the folks you are talking to aren't so teaching them about something like this is a huge issue in my eyes. These guys are going to become insecure at the worst time possible, in the bedroom. These guys in a lot of cases may base their relative confidence on it having taller shoes. There are guys on this forum who mentioned this and that their insecurity came about when they took off their shoes. I read about that is why I mention it. A false sense of security ends quickly. I stand by my body language statement, it is more important than anything you mentioned in your entire article, good body language can give you presence that makes you appear much larger. I've had that swagger and attracted women in a plain white v-neck shirt and jeans so you know it WASN'T my style, though there is a certain style to my language pattern and what not. You need to avoid telling folks to put a band aid on a leaky pipe, it is giving HORRIBLE advice. Teach people to be ok with their height and they will be much better off than your shoes or tattoo advice. I do think the work out, eat right, and gain a sense of style will be very helpful for pick up but I feel that way in general it isn't related to height, everyone should simple do those. Peace and Love, Vic |
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| Author: | glazecase [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 12:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Quote: but a tattoo that means something DOES NOT make you appear taller, how the hell could it? What the hell? Why would you advertise to anyone to put a permanent mark on themselves so that they can appear taller when it literally has zero to do with height. |
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| Author: | Bruce-Wayne [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 1:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Short guys:few tips |
Short guys Do this 1) go to amazon.com 2) type in height increasers Get something from 2-4 inches. (unless you'd rather wear business cards in your shoes, in which case do you I'm 5'10 and I still wear height increasers at bars. Is it a matter of insecurity? Not really. The taller you are, in relation to others, the more confident you feel. (unless you're a tall nerd with terrible inner game) Its shallow but it's just true. |
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