cheers for that, i should be a more kinaesthetic learner and learn for myself rather than delve down into everything
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| Author: | Ninja1992 [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 9:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | List of IOI's - What specifically do they mean? |
Hey World! I've seen a list of IOI's floating around here somewhere, but no real indication as to what they specifically mean... Care to start a list here? Cheers! |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 11:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: List of IOI's - What specifically do they mean? |
Quote: Hey World!
I wrote a big ass thread on body language body-language-the-key-to-natural-game-vt71495.html . IOIs don't work because they don't follow body language guidelines, they are hit or miss, some girls touch when they are attracted some girls just touch, some girls preen when they are attracted some just preen. That thread is 16 pages and going. I've seen a list of IOI's floating around here somewhere, but no real indication as to what they specifically mean... Care to start a list here? Cheers! I also have a blog on preens http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... ic-preens/ , submissive signals http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... turn-show/ , arousal http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... roduction/ , and approach cues (works off the other preens and submissive signals) http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... ttraction/ . If you have any questions after reading that feel free to ask, I'll answer to the best of my ability. Attraction is easy to read, but there are a lot of little asterisks. I really don't feel like writing another thread like that man. |
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| Author: | 7000 [ Wed May 02, 2012 9:24 am ] |
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Poeticlyskuac's links should help you a lot there ninja. I don't think you want to get too much into trying to work out the exact "meaning" of every little thing. It's more of an art than a science. I'm pretty new to this stuff, but I suppose more generally I'm just looking for signs of whether they are interested or not interested - nothing more than that. I'm not looking for specific meanings of specific things, because when you break it down to that level, it can become too "scientific" and doesn't end up working. Poeticlyskuac's blog also talks about "clusters" - check these out, as they sort of show what I'm talking about above. If a girl just twizzles a strand of hair, it could mean a few things. But if she's twizzling a strand of hair, looking at you in a certain way, head tilted downwards, she's also rearranging her clothes etc. etc. all at the same sort of time, then you're looking at the wider picture and if she's doing loads of things that all sort of indicate the same thing, you've got more chance of being right about it. But again, there is no science and sometimes you can't just pick out one random piece of body language and get a definite meaning for it - you have to look at the whole picture. |
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| Author: | Ninja1992 [ Wed May 02, 2012 7:21 pm ] |
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cheers for that, i should be a more kinaesthetic learner and learn for myself rather than delve down into everything
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Wed May 02, 2012 10:37 pm ] |
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Quote: cheers for that, i should be a more kinaesthetic learner and learn for myself rather than delve down into everything
Why re-invent the wheel? If someone brings the information to you use it. You requested a list, I gave you so much more, and the truth about IOIs. Now you want to learn for yourself rather than learn from others? "A wise man learns from his own mistakes, a wiser man learns from the mistakes of others." How this information should be used is you should go over and study it then go in the field and just be aware of the information. Paying attention to all those little signals and knowing when a woman wants you to approach. Multiple people have gained their PHD from the info, if you can learn all this info by just learning yourself than go for your PHD. Do you realize the length and understanding of body language? Or how hard it is to just learn for yourself without the help of books or other people. You want to just read the info, understand the info, and be aware of them in the field everywhere you. You'll learn faster by going through that information than just field experience after experience. Often times we miss what has been there all along, if you've been missing all these signs all this time what makes you think you'll be able to just "learn for yourself" when you haven't yet? The most successful person is often the most prepared person, this info is great preparation for field work. |
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