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Author:  Neptune [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:32 am ]
Post subject:  Dilemma!

i dont have a problem at looking confident when i walk around, i stand tall, chest out, shoulders back, all that jazz. i dont even have that much of a problem with being confident when speaking to most people, i remember to keep the positions in check and give myself a metaphorical pinch on the bollocks when i dont. my problem is the fine line between confidence and arrogence. how do i seem confident without appearing like a self worshipping ass?!
Nep

Author:  FrequentFlyerCA [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma!

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i dont have a problem at looking confident when i walk around, i stand tall, chest out, shoulders back, all that jazz. i dont even have that much of a problem with being confident when speaking to most people, i remember to keep the positions in check and give myself a metaphorical pinch on the bollocks when i dont. my problem is the fine line between confidence and arrogence. how do i seem confident without appearing like a self worshipping ass?!
Nep
Be sure of yourself and what you do but do not brag about this and that. If you do brag and show off, make sure its got to do with your personality traits and not your possesions. Give an example of something you do that makes you think you have this problem.

Author:  Neptune [ Mon Nov 19, 2007 1:23 am ]
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umm well i go to college, so alot of my time is spent in a social situation, and for example when the teacher is explaing something, we'll all be sat around and i sit in a stance in which i feel confident, but i also feel a bit arro... im kind of trailing off here because i think i know the answer to my own question. theres nothing wrong with feeling slightly arrogent, and sitting in a way that makes me feel like the AMOG, as long as i back it up with frienly social interactions and smiling when i look at people. thanks man for helping me realise
Nep

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