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| Author: | Billionaire [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 6:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need a Kill Filter on this Forum |
Basically I come here to shoot the shit and sometimes ask a question while I am working on gaining pua knowledge & skills. I didn't come here for people to treat me like shit and talk to me like an idiot and a loser. Almost everyone on this board is nice, but so far a couple of people have replied to me in a very shitty way. I looked for a kill filter but there doesn't seem to be one. I would like to just cut these two very nasty people out so I don't have to read their attacks anymore. I left mASF because there are a lot of mean and nasty people over there who like to insult, harass, and cut other people down. I was careful about what I said over there, so they didn't attack me directly, but I still felt indirectly attacked by the things they said over there. I really hated the horrible SPAM over there. I can find out virtually all the pua info I need from ebooks and audio courses, so if I have to, I will leave this forum also. I just like to have some forum where I can shoot the breeze, but it's not a requirement in my life. I think if there were a kill filter, then the amount of posting would probably increase because then people wouldn't have to read posts by jerks who insult and attack them. So they would feel safer to post. I think this forum should be a place where people can just relax, have fun, and not worry about others insulting them or otherwise treating them badly. |
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| Author: | xibuz [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:44 am ] |
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Case in point: communicating in text, its emotional meaning is ambiguous. This why lotta mPUAs discourage texting targets you haven't been with yet. I never seen anyone attack or insult you, but there's always misunderstandings here cuz we never know the other persons intentions, you can't read their facial expressions or tonality, xcept if an emoticon or image is used but still.... The way I seen it we were just giving you honest feedback and sharing info. We accuse each other of trolling and bragging but wouldn't we say the same things when shooting the shit with friends? Chillax homie, its just the internet. |
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| Author: | cerin [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 10:58 am ] |
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The internet is serious business........... Haha, memes. Seriously, though. You shouldn't take anything too seriously. It's best just to ignore the people you don't like and don't do what they call "feeding the trolls". It will make your stay way more pleasant, bro. It's like PU. If you are reactive then you aren't alpha. 
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| Author: | 870 [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 3:54 pm ] |
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From the forum rules: Quote: 9. This is a forum, be open to constructive criticism.
Yes, some people can be a little abrasive with their responses. Yes, you are going to hear things here you'd rather not accept as reality. But the most important thing to remember is that everyone who replies to something you write does so with the ultimate purpose of helping you improve yourself.This is a public forum and as such, when you post anything at all, be prepared to have other people with lesser and greater skill than you criticize and dissect it. Don't get offended or angry when this occurs, that is the entire point of posting here. Also, when you ask for help, be open to it and don't tell experienced and knowledgeable people that they don't know what they are talking about and being jerks; perhaps they misunderstood, so be diplomatic, or perhaps you just need to open yourself to constructive criticism. Are you going to get bad advice on occasion? Sure. That's a fact on any exchange medium, not just the internet, and certainly not just this forum. It's up to you to develop the intelligence and wherewithall to recognize and ignore it here, just as you surely do in life. Your boy, 870 |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:56 pm ] |
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I agree with everything the other guys have posted and to be honest I think the problem lies with you rather than others. Quote: I was careful about what I said over there, so they didn't attack me directly, but I still felt indirectly attacked by the things they said over there.
Case in point. In short chill out a bit many responses will seem a tad abrasive but even the outright rude posts are usually offering useful advice. 
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| Author: | xibuz [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 5:42 pm ] |
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| Author: | madals [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:58 am ] |
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So if you do something idiotic, you don't want to be told it's stupid. You don't want people to respond in negative ways to things you do/say. If you can't cope with it on the internet, how the hell do you cope with it when you talk to strangers trying to pick them up? This isn't an attack at you, it is me trying to show you where your limiting yourself by ignoring your critics. If someone makes a direct personal attack at YOU and not at your idea, the mods will deal with the person. What good will come of people beating around the bush when telling you that your wrong and how to improve? Madals |
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