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| Author: | Soncheese [ Thu May 10, 2012 3:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | 40 day masturbation challenge |
My aim is to go 40 days without masturbating- (start date 10th may) Reason for this: I noticed when i didnt masturbated for a week i had great energy to make small talk no matter what the set was. Any girl i saw and felt slight attraction for, my mind would naturally urge me to go open I see that this helps with any AA i have in those uncomfortable situations Also its about self discipline. Its a great life skill to have. It will teach me to sustain at eating healthy, staying physically well shaped and lastly education But i know i will struggle after a week so any advice would be appreciated on how to do this! Soncheese x |
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| Author: | AFCostanza [ Thu May 10, 2012 6:33 am ] |
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I will be doing this myself. (Well maybe not 40 days) I just plan to stop masturbating for a while, and recognize how much more in tune I am, and how much more I feel the need to approach. I feel masturbating contributes to my approach amxiety, or at least demotivates me to go out and try. |
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| Author: | 1eye [ Thu May 10, 2012 1:11 pm ] |
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Quote: I will be doing this myself. (Well maybe not 40 days) I just plan to stop masturbating for a while, and recognize how much more in tune I am, and how much more I feel the need to approach. I feel masturbating contributes to my approach amxiety, or at least demotivates me to go out and try.
From "The Multi orgasmic Man"
Quote: Sun Ssu-miao, one of the leading physicians of ancient China recommended that men attain good health and longevity by ejaculaing twice a month, as long as they ate healthily and exercised. He also offered the following more specific guidelines.
Please read my posts further down this section for details.A man at twenty can ejaculate once every four days. A man at thirty can ejaculate once every eight days. A man at forty can ejaculate once every ten days. A man at fifty can ejaculate once every twenty days. A man at sixty should no long ejaculate. It goes without saying that his prescription did not limit the number of times a man of any age could have sex and non-ejaculatory orgasms. This restriction on ejaculation may sound like a disappointment, but once you have had multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms, you won't miss ejaculating at all. In the words of one multi-orgasmic man, "Once you have multi's [non-ejaculatory orgasms], you never want to go back to squirt [ejaculatory] orgasms. Squirt orgasms are just in your genitals, multi's are whole-body orgasms." Sun Ssu-miao, who lived to 101, ejaculated only after making love one hundred times. But rather than adhering to any rigid numerical formula, you should try to pay attention to your body. If you are exhausted or sick, drunk or stuffed with food, you should avoid ejaculating. If you are working hard you will want to conserve your semen, but if you are on vacation you may wish to ejaculate a little more often. The ancient Taoists, who lived close to nature, also believed that just as plants and animals conserve their energy in winter, so should people. Besides the seasons, there are other rhythms that will determine the number of times you ejaculate. Conventional Masturbation impares thinking,saps your strength and you will be tired in general. The disadvantage is that you ejaculate or loose your sperm.This in itself is the chi or sexual energy that your body converts from the energies of your vital organs. If you follow the frequency guidelines given above at least you can allow your body to recuperate or top up this chi or lifeforce for proper functioning of the body. The taoists recommend instead of ejaculation you retain your semen.This is called solo cultivation.You masterbate in the usual way but you learn to use your PC muscles to control the onset of ejaculation and thus have multiple orgasms You learn to channel or recirculate this energy back to your body. The essential requirement is that your tongue must touch the roof of your mouth in front of your teeth,it acts like an energetic switch conducting from the sex gland up the cocxyx or tailbone ,up the spine to the top of the head and down in front,exiting out of the navel.This pathway is known as the microcosmic orbit. For futher details read Mantak Chia's "Taoist secrets of love- Cultivating male sexual energy" . This method gives you a different feeling which is superior to the one shot method. If you can master this you will be in high demand. |
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| Author: | Sillsy [ Thu May 10, 2012 6:42 pm ] |
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Good luck, do you still plan on having sex? Also its rough I've been wanking it since like 9 or 10 and after 3 days it feels like my nuts are going to hatch. A ton more energy though, starting to become much more playful and energetic, sort of like when your in high school and just want to run around and talk to babes. |
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| Author: | Eternal-Water [ Thu May 10, 2012 10:59 pm ] |
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You know its interesting you should start this thread. Since I began I have jacked off twice or thrice a day, sometimes 4 on a weekend day. I'm now 21. 1 week ago I set myself the target of going a whole week without doing the deed. Today I completed my week. (and I also did the deed). During the week, I had more energy, focus and self confidence. I don't know If Iwas imagining it but girls seemed to notice me more. I also started sleeping better and I have sleeping problems. My target now is to repeat that week, I'm aiming to make once a week my norm rather than a 1 off. |
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| Author: | 1eye [ Fri May 11, 2012 3:03 am ] |
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Quote: You know its interesting you should start this thread.
What's the point of abstaining when you are going to resume masturbaing and ejaculating? You are forever in sexual energy deficit.Just look at the european countries ofGreece,spain,Italy,portugal and France of their economic problems they are delaying the tough and right policies as as you are now.Masturbation impairs thinking and I hope you can analyse this.The reason girls notice you is because your abstinance as given time for your body to recharge itself thereby you are literally emanating your sexual energy that they can sense or detect.Internal flows through to the exterior.Since I began I have jacked off twice or thrice a day, sometimes 4 on a weekend day. I'm now 21. 1 week ago I set myself the target of going a whole week without doing the deed. Today I completed my week. (and I also did the deed). During the week, I had more energy, focus and self confidence. I don't know If Iwas imagining it but girls seemed to notice me more. I also started sleeping better and I have sleeping problems. My target now is to repeat that week, I'm aiming to make once a week my norm rather than a 1 off. From "Cultivating Male sexual energy" Quote: Dr. Beyoihn, a noted endocrinologist, stressed the importance
of the hormonal function of semen production: "Sexual hormones are important to our harmonious development. When men abuse the reproductive function, the secretions of the sexual glands are lost. . . resulting in mental and physical weakness, inability to concentrate, and a less tenacious memory."*Love-making is an internal exercise which helps restore imbalances in bodily chemistry. A moderate amount of sex tends to repair hormonal disturbances, to reduce cholesterol and blood pressure levels. Sexual activity alters the body chemically. The reason this happens is because each gland in the body affects all the others. Thus when sex hormones are stimulated, it stimulates the hormones secreted by the other major glands—adrenal, thymus, thyroid, pituitary, and pineal. The illusion when you are young is that you can stimulate your glands indefinitely, without paying a price for it. Sex seems like a bottomless well of bliss. It is, if you take the trouble to recirculate the sexual hormones within the body instead of repeatedly ejaculating them. |
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| Author: | Eternal-Water [ Fri May 11, 2012 9:41 am ] |
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not masturbating at all is just unrealistic, can't do it. Especially with not having a girlfriend. |
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| Author: | 1eye [ Fri May 11, 2012 10:28 am ] |
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Quote: not masturbating at all is just unrealistic, can't do it.
I'm not saying not to masturbate but not to ejaculate.The taoist method of conserving your sexual energy by retaining your sperm enables you to have multiple orgasms. You don't need a GF to practice.Which is better,one shot or a series of orgasms that are superior in content.You and most people have been trained to equate orgasm with ejaculation.Look at this in the long term 20 to 30 years down the road.Do you want to pay for it by poor health and longevity.It certainly is realistic.You can download the book if you know where to find it.
Especially with not having a girlfriend. |
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| Author: | Eternal-Water [ Fri May 11, 2012 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 40 day masturbation challenge |
Quote: But i know i will struggle after a week so any advice would be appreciated on how to do this! Soncheese x |
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| Author: | Soncheese [ Sat May 12, 2012 6:03 am ] |
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hey thanks for all the info its my 2nd day and i have to tell you im starting to struggle a little already but i can tell you now i can already feel this positive energy in me its just like i said before any girl i see that i have slight attraction its automatic that my brain wants me to go engage her highly doubt i can complete this challenge but we'll see lol i do recommend it to be tried it doesnt have to be for 40 days but you get the picture also a way round this is when your doing the deed, its to build it up but not ejaculate but my god you need some will power to stop! Will keep updating on how i feel and my success (if Any) with chicks Soncheese x |
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| Author: | Spacevolt [ Sat May 12, 2012 7:45 am ] |
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id been trying to do that since i saw the movie 40 days 40 nights but i always end up jerking off after like 3 weeks.. im 22 now and i dont really do it everyday , since like you said it gives you motivation to talk to girls and loose your AA and i agree it actually does help you go out and talk.. its my second day aswell and im gonna try to keep up with you for the 40 days no more hand fuck. if i fail ill leave a post on here but it wont be soon. |
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| Author: | Soncheese [ Sat May 12, 2012 8:51 am ] |
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Quote: id been trying to do that since i saw the movie 40 days 40 nights but i always end up jerking off after like 3 weeks.. im 22 now and i dont really do it everyday , since like you said it gives you motivation to talk to girls and loose your AA and i agree it actually does help you go out and talk..
lol its quite good to hear someone else is doing this too its my second day aswell and im gonna try to keep up with you for the 40 days no more hand fuck. if i fail ill leave a post on here but it wont be soon. helps with the motivation but im 19 and if we get past 2weeks i probably need you to post on here saying keep strong you can do this dont give up etc lol Soncheese x |
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| Author: | Spacevolt [ Sun May 13, 2012 12:02 pm ] |
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sounds good.. well ama keep u updated. today at my work a beautiful asian chick a hb:10 too my standards came in and we kinda had a long conversstion she was around 25 yrs old and was with her mom and little brother so i negged her right as i approached her, i was like greeting everyone but her like giving my back to her. then i said oh your also with them.. i though you were by yourself. she then kinda statrted to try to get my atyention as if i hadnt noticed her beauty as i tried to stablish confort witth the obstacle in this case her mom. i was askin her about her day and what she tought of the weather blah blah blah... i felt my target trying to get my attention so hard so i was like " you remind me of my niece she always acts cute to get my attention.. but i just ignore her" the obstcle laughed and told me "shes been like that since she was young" i laughed she blushed and i noticed a few ioi's so i pretended to leave them for a second and i returned as i did thst i knew i had her attracted because she tried to give me some shit tests to test me but i passed them....a few minutes passed and i found myself being alone with her talking and i knew i could had #closed her but that seems to be one of the sticking points i need to work on.. as i rethink this it makes me wanna shake the father of thousands because of how far i could have gone if i could only had ask her that phone number.... but o well i no longer jerk off because i wanna be competitive i wanna beat you, i know i could go further than you with out jerking off. |
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| Author: | Eternal-Water [ Sun May 13, 2012 4:43 pm ] |
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After my exams are done I am gonna attempt a fornight. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue May 15, 2012 12:35 am ] |
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I never understood it. So the point of not jerking off is to help you meet women, with the ultimate goal being to have sex. Once you start having sex, you're cumming, so you're back to square one. And if somebody wants to try to tell me there's a magical elixer in a vagina that prevents that same fuckin biochemical reaction from occurring, good luck. |
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