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Author:  supachai [ Sun Jan 10, 2010 8:18 am ]
Post subject:  more women more problems: how to manage all your picked-ups
I find it hard to manage the girls i meet, because i only have the weekends to date them. And my family doesn't like my new lifestyle, so i have to hide them too. And i don't like lying.

I did found out that having more options for the weekend gives you more confidence, but i worry about every girl and i don't wanna fail. The feeling of not wanting to fail is bad, so, every time i meet a girl i mostly think about an other girl so that i don't instantly fall in love and become desperate.

And how the fuck do you guys go out 3 nights a week, i don't have time for that! Or enough sleep. How do you guys do that? :?:

I think i could really speed up building skills by simply managing my time and effort better. Any advice? :?:

Do you filter out from the beginning, or do you allways make an effort? :?:
Author:  Chillburg [ Sun Jan 10, 2010 7:54 pm ]
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Sup fellow Tilburger?

I have trouble managing as well, last night at a party (Loos) I had to herd 3 fuckbuddies and 2 projects. But, I got myself into this situation so I can't whine.

I go out 3-4 nights a week, I'm lucky with my school schedule so I can go out wednesday through saturday. And sleeping...well yeah i've been waking up later and later on the day lately..

On some level you should filter though...only 'worry' (dont even worry :P) about the ones you REALLY like and just keep the others around.

What bar/clubs do you go to maybe we know eachother :D?
Author:  Medic [ Sun Jan 10, 2010 9:02 pm ]
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Welcome to the forum, sir.

First of all, never feel ashamed of your family. They are your family, after all. Why does your family disapprove of your lifestyle? Are you becoming a raging douchebag? Think about it.

Secondly, the biggest key to managing multiple "relationships" (I use that term very loosely) is to keep a tight schedule.

I have never been a fan of dating more than two women at a time. I care about everyone I have dated and I don't think that I have been able to give as much time and attention to them if there are more than two. With that said, never lie to anyone. I'm not saying that you tell "Samantha" that you're going out with "Christine," but don't lead on that either is the only one.

You don't need to be out 3 nights a week. Listen, we all have to work, we all have friends and family. Keep balance, if one thing is overwhelming your life, like going out, your life will become out of whack.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:01 pm ]
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if i go out 4 times a week il get hardcore social savy, however my health reduces because im sleeping late and i get up late during the day. Financially i get some problems as well as you always buy some drink or some food.
there is no use going out a monday or tuesday because there aren't many sets and girls to open , i hate it when you have to change venue after opening 2 sets.
my solution : game during the day - just game that cassier or game that customer at that store.
for one month i had a big social circle, problem is you have to invest in that as well, so i decided to say fuck it .. im only going to game woman- fuck friends. i don't have time for both friends and gaming .

you need to plan dude
Author:  Chillburg [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:07 pm ]
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if i go out 4 times a week il get hardcore social savy, however my health reduces because im sleeping late and i get up late during the day. Financially i get some problems as well as you always buy some drink or some food.
there is no use going out a monday or tuesday because there aren't many sets and girls to open , i hate it when you have to change venue after opening 2 sets.
my solution : game during the day - just game that cassier or game that customer at that store.
for one month i had a big social circle, problem is you have to invest in that as well, so i decided to say fuck it .. im only going to game woman- fuck friends. i don't have time for both friends and gaming .

you need to plan dude
Really depends on what city you're in, here in Tilburg tuesdays are good for going out as well 8)

What I like about my big group of (diverse) friends is that I always have people to go out with and when I'm having fun dancing with them (pivots and male friends) it just becomes so much easier to game women around me because we usually own the dancefloor and get a lot of attention.
Author:  Medic [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 2:09 pm ]
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Yeah, it really depends on where you are. Any night can be a good night to go out. Hell, if you're doing it right, you shouldn't need to open more than one set. ;)
Author:  supachai [ Mon Jan 11, 2010 5:47 pm ]
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@Chillburg

Hey kruikenzeiker! Studeer je soms rechten? :lol:

I'm currently not in tilburg that often (vanwege stage), i'm planning to fully game after februari the 1.

Where i go in Tilburg: last time in Slagroom (stopsign party), but i'm going to utrecht friday on a date. Last saterday in roermond i had a date (total fail btw).

I'm still very new to this, haven't really fully started, but i enjoy it allready. I try different things.
Author:  supachai [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 5:45 pm ]
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First of all, never feel ashamed of your family. They are your family, after all. Why does your family disapprove of your lifestyle? Are you becoming a raging douchebag? Think about it.
I'm not ashamed of my family at all, they just don't want me to date more than one girl. So i have to lie to them to hide this fact.
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