Those are some GREAT advices. Thank you very much! Eventually I want to grow out to be a good photographer as well. I got the equipment, now the gutts and the experience.
Will PM you.
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| Author: | ThePretenderMtl [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 7:09 pm ] |
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FACT: I hate pursuing women and that outside appearance is not enough is the girl is dumb or if I don't "LOVE" her face (I'm a face and ass guy). As a result, I've decided 1- cultivate the gay/metrosexual (a little like style) type with good fashion sense who can see what's wrong in their outfits. I also look and sound russian when I talk english (even though I'm french from France). 2- learn all I can about women. I read magazines, books about makeup, I know how to pose them, find their complexes. I can look at them straight in the eyes no matter what they are wearing (cold guy stuff) and can read their minds sometimes. 3- to travel a lot (Montreal, Paris, NYC, Toronto, San Francisco) 4- to go shoot nightlife in clubs whenever I'm away (I can walk in any clubs of California without having to wait) 5-to build a portfolio of photos of models so good that women now add me on Facebook. However I refuse to use the fact that I have son whom I have shared custody of. With time passing by and more and more good photos in my portfolio, women will naturally come to me. Also, when I photograph them in studio or outside (in lingerie sometimes), - I can touch them (appropriately), - create rapport (I have good fashion sense) and tell them that I'm used to seeing a lot of good looking women. - when I asked them to be more seductive, I always tell her that this would not work on me, if they tried a little better, well maybe. - when reviewing the photos, I give my opinion on the photo and the pose, NOT on her. - Ask them to stay while you edit the photo in photoshop, each spot removal, each adjustment feels like a neg by itself. My angle is that I want the women feel I love ALL women, that they feel good about them when looking at them (sexy, strong...), that their friends want to shoot with me. I just want them to feel that I have REALLY HIGH standards (my lifestyle is congruent with that). My game is based on integrity and honesty. I aim for quality over quantity and will NEVER jeopardize my reputation (once I'll have photographed hundred of girls I will not need to go after them anyway). On a closing note, if you want to have a GOOD reputation professionally, you CAN'T ASK her on a date on a first shoot, you can't Kiss close except if she starts touching you back (and then you say "oh I did not know we were on a date..."). You can't be seen as a player or a PUA because the world of photographers is really small and reputations is everything They have to feel you do them a favor of asking them out. That said, if I'm here, it's also because I can't seem to have those casual relationships I am looking for. I have an amazing son and don't need a second mother for him so a serious relationship is out of the question for now. Fucking random girls does not interest me, I like classy and intelligent women (even if they're 19-20) who WANT a casual relationship too. Ask me to PM you my website (so that you see it's true) and also if you're in MONTREAL. I'll update on my travels soon. |
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| Author: | sinsitive [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 7:21 pm ] |
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Those are some GREAT advices. Thank you very much! Eventually I want to grow out to be a good photographer as well. I got the equipment, now the gutts and the experience. Will PM you.
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| Author: | ThePretenderMtl [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 7:38 pm ] |
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I forgot to mention that you want women to be MOVED by your photos, feel something... if you portray them like sluts, you won't get any of the quality girls... High standards is key. You have all the power to make them look good or not (believe me, any 10 can become a 6 with just a photo). With power though, come responsibilities... 
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| Author: | sinsitive [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 7:51 pm ] |
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I'm very aware. My biggest challenge is to make HB 5's look like HB10's. The compliments you get are great. The stories they tell to actual 10's is like being in heaven if you hear it from the 10's.
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