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Author:  arnolfo [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 6:09 pm ]
Post subject:  in the club....pride issue.....a new situation
hi guys
i consider myself quite good with girls....i used to be shy when i was a teenager but now i don't have any problem approchating a girl....i don't need to be drunk i can talk or approch a girl almost wherever.
i developed this after years.....when i was very young was hard to talk to a girl that i didn't know before but i forced myself and now is very natural.
i always go to clubs,every week-end and there i talk to many girls.very often i kiss some of them and sometime also bring them home for sex.of course if i kiss 4 girl in a month i have been refused from 20 but i don't care.to be refused is not a problem for me,i think is part of the game.
i builded a good reputation of myself in the last years.
but now i have a new problem.
sometimes happen that i have been refused by a girl (as i said before this is not a problem) and after a while i see her kissing another guy.THIS MAKE ME ABSOLUTELY CRAZY.
i can't accept it when i see that my night is ruined.
after this happened 4 or 5 times in last year is start to be a big problem.
i'm sick about that.
when a girl refuse me i don't think to other girls i just start to search her in the club for see if she is still alone or with another guy.i know this is crazy....i'm crazy but i need help.
have this ever happen to one of you guys?please tell me how to front the problem.
i don't enjoy go club like i used to to do before for this reason
is a real prolem because go club for me is a way to get away from my several problems in life but like that is hard now
thanks in advance

p.s sorry for my english
Author:  arnolfo [ Sun Sep 06, 2009 1:06 pm ]
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it happen again last night.
first i was dancing with a girl and after a while she came back to her friends,but i saw her talking to a guy (in this case i'm sure that she knew this guy before to know me).
the problem is that i start to look at her and see what's happen.i can't stop!
i keep loking at her to see if she will kiss that guy or not.it's very masochistic but i can't stop.
i should start to think to other girl but i can't.
after a while i left the club cause i was scared that if i saw the girl with someonelse i was too sad.
i went to another club and i kissed a girl...after spending 20 min with her she went back to her friend....she seemed not very interesting in me anymore so i was scaried to see her with another man and so i left the club
i understand it's absolutely crazy....i know.....but i need help.
i can't enjoy clubs anymore for this reason
please give me some advices
Author:  ALPHA LiON [ Mon Sep 07, 2009 3:21 pm ]
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If you are alpha enough this is preventable, you could destroy him will some AMOG killer tactics, these will send him away with his tail between his legs. Here's a good bag of examples > http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/ ... G/268.html

As with anything use with caution, depending on your personality they might not flow too well try and create your own better ones.

However I strongly suggest you focus more on improving your game so that the girl does not wan't to leave you in the first place. If anything you should be the one going off kissing another girl.

All the best in the future!
Author:  Triibal [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 7:51 am ]
Post subject:  sound similar to me
Im a club promoter in miami so i know exactly what ur talking about.
for starters its hard at first but dont let it ruin your night, think back what u might have done wrong. Party for a little without thinking about it then approach a different one (where the target cant see u, then bring her a little near and slowly get closer) and do not make eye contact with the target. with the decoy, make a scene (grab her hands with urs and put them in the air, spin her once, get real close, kiss her) with another girl on the dancefloor near "lil miss rejection" but not too close and remember DO NOT LOOK AT HER for atleast an hour. she will try to give u eye contact but if she dosent WHO GIVES A FUk! its another club girl out of the thousands

remember the more girls see other girls on u the more they come, dnt worry about looking like a man whore...subconsiously they love that shit

alpha lions link is defiantely useful too
Author:  arnolfo [ Tue Sep 08, 2009 4:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: sound similar to me
Quote:
Im a club promoter in miami so i know exactly what ur talking about.
for starters its hard at first but dont let it ruin your night, think back what u might have done wrong. Party for a little without thinking about it then approach a different one (where the target cant see u, then bring her a little near and slowly get closer) and do not make eye contact with the target. with the decoy, make a scene (grab her hands with urs and put them in the air, spin her once, get real close, kiss her) with another girl on the dancefloor near "lil miss rejection" but not too close and remember DO NOT LOOK AT HER for atleast an hour. she will try to give u eye contact but if she dosent WHO GIVES A FUk! its another club girl out of the thousands

remember the more girls see other girls on u the more they come, dnt worry about looking like a man whore...subconsiously they love that shit

alpha lions link is defiantely useful too
i'm a man wore buddy lol
anyway thanks for the advice what you said is true,and it's nice to hear that i'm not the only one with these problems
but first i'm not a starter....i'm doing pick up in clubs since years and i'm quite succesfull but this is a new problem.never happen before and made me off one's guard.
i already theoretically know how to act but the problem is that this kind of situation s stronger than me.....i have to front it anyway.
i just can't stop to think about it and this make me very weack.
i think as you said the main point is don't think about her and don't look at her.
PROBABLY IF SHE SEE YOU LOOKING AT HER SHE'LL THINK YOU ARE NEEDY AND WEAK,this should be the main point of the situation....what do you guys think?
if you don't look at her and keep going with your approach to other girl there are more chance she came back.
the problem is that is really really hard to do....there is an huge masochistic strenght that make me looking at her.
it's hard to deal with it
i have to do it anyway....i hope next time will be better
Author:  Emiliooooh! [ Wed Sep 09, 2009 2:30 am ]
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By the sounds of it, it's not a game problem, as much as an inner-game issue. I'd refer back to the confidence building portions of the forum, and work on that...
Either that, or all you manage to pick up is sluts, since they seem to always meet these other guys when you are out of range. I had the same issue recently where I would literally get a beer/hit the washroom, and there would be another guy there. It bugged me a shitload too, but it made me realize the kind of girl she was. Of course, once I had that shit figured out, it was easy as hell to outgame all those other guys, just because i could. :lol:
Author:  ALPHA LiON [ Sun Sep 20, 2009 10:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: sound similar to me
Quote:
WHO GIVES A FUk! its another club girl out of the thousands

remember the more girls see other girls on u the more they come, dnt worry about looking like a man whore...subconsiously they love that shit
Definitely, the who gives a fuck attitude is a must have, if it isn't going anywhere here's the one word answer NEXT! Last night I got rejected five times in a row before I got my first pull of the night, on my sixth approach I was thinking of calling it a night, don't give up keep going cause your one step closer to getting a pull. Turns out I had pink makeup shit all over my face the whole night which explains alot! haha.

As for the man whore thing the best thing you can do is bring some female friends preferably quite good looking ones and have a laugh with them in a good visible place before your approach. Sometimes you don't even need to approach because it works so damn well!
Author:  Zeokar [ Mon Nov 01, 2010 2:04 pm ]
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hey man

I got this as well the other night, i was dancing and grinding on this HB8, we started making out, i took her outside the smoking section to build comfort, but wasnt enought when we went back in dancing, her friend found her, and this other dude just took her away, didnt say anythin or look at me, just walked off and left me alone, it was hard to cope with but i thought to myself im not gona let some girl ruin my night, so i started gettin back into the dancin vibe and eventully got another girls number, not the best but o well

Zeo
Author:  camus154 [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 12:19 am ]
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Quote:
of course if i kiss 4 girl in a month i have been refused from 20 but i don't care.to be refused is not a problem for me,i think is part of the game.
I don't think this is really true if you can't refrain from watching these women to see if they kiss on other men. If they refused you and you had no problem with that, then why care if they hook up with another dude?
Author:  arnolfo [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:45 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
of course if i kiss 4 girl in a month i have been refused from 20 but i don't care.to be refused is not a problem for me,i think is part of the game.
I don't think this is really true if you can't refrain from watching these women to see if they kiss on other men. If they refused you and you had no problem with that, then why care if they hook up with another dude?
trust me is true.
i can't explain it but is how it is.
if i stop people in the street and i never seen them agian i don't care at all to be refused.
the problem start when i'm at the club, if i see them with somebody else than i feel bad.
sometimes girls have other reason to say no, maybe they have a boyfriend maybe they are not looking for anybody in that moment so i think that might be another reason.
when they are with someonelse the there isn't other reasons
Author:  MsNoca [ Wed Dec 22, 2010 11:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: in the club....pride issue.....a new situation
Quote:
hi guys
i consider myself quite good with girls....i used to be shy when i was a teenager but now i don't have any problem approchating a girl....i don't need to be drunk i can talk or approch a girl almost wherever.
i developed this after years.....when i was very young was hard to talk to a girl that i didn't know before but i forced myself and now is very natural.
i always go to clubs,every week-end and there i talk to many girls.very often i kiss some of them and sometime also bring them home for sex.of course if i kiss 4 girl in a month i have been refused from 20 but i don't care.to be refused is not a problem for me,i think is part of the game.
i builded a good reputation of myself in the last years.
but now i have a new problem.
sometimes happen that i have been refused by a girl (as i said before this is not a problem) and after a while i see her kissing another guy.THIS MAKE ME ABSOLUTELY CRAZY.
i can't accept it when i see that my night is ruined.
after this happened 4 or 5 times in last year is start to be a big problem.
i'm sick about that.
when a girl refuse me i don't think to other girls i just start to search her in the club for see if she is still alone or with another guy.i know this is crazy....i'm crazy but i need help.
have this ever happen to one of you guys?please tell me how to front the problem.
i don't enjoy go club like i used to to do before for this reason
is a real prolem because go club for me is a way to get away from my several problems in life but like that is hard now
thanks in advance

p.s sorry for my english
You should never let a stranger aka a girl you don't know or just met have the power of ruining your night. Just because she kissed another guy does not mean her next kiss on another day might be with you!
Author:  NonStopReaper [ Thu Jan 06, 2011 3:28 pm ]
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this is what they call falling off from the top. You got to the point where you were high up on your horse and haven't fail. You seem to bypass the checks and balances of success. Like a water dam the more and more you succeed the higher and higher the water raised and once it reach the top. The dam broke and you cant seem to fill it back up.you have water flow ( your game) but you cant seem to retain it (the broken water dam) what you need to do is fix your scarred inner self. Change up you routine. learn something new. everything is always evolving. yeah you still can pull but you cant retain. there's a kink in your steps somewhere. so make a note of it and see if you can fix this problem. the longer you let it dwell or you stay like this. The harder its gonna take for you to get over it.
Author:  BrianFL2 [ Sat Feb 26, 2011 6:51 pm ]
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sounds like young drunk girls in a nightclub. Inherently a crazy situation, this stuff has to happen.

You don't really have her until she leaves the club with you. repeat that 10x
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