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Author:  Lucky7 [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 11:10 pm ]
Post subject:  if a girl says she does not want a bf, is that an automatic
So I was having this conversation with this girl and she brings up how her ex was an asshole. She says she was with him for 3 years and ended 4 months ago. Says she got over it, but come on. 3 years and get over it in 4 months? Maybe less. B.S that is not the point.
So she then told me she is happy and does not want a bf, did not say she wont date. But tomato tamato.
So when a girl says that is it just game over? I think one pua said it was but I am just confirming.
I also was not getting any bad vibe from her. We have conversations and its not just me talking. She would laugh at most of my jokes. Cool person none the less so I would not mind just being friends.
Author:  AceofSpades07 [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 1:23 am ]
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it is def not game over. It seems like your still setting IOIs so I wouldnt change anything. After all are you looking for a long term relationship anyway?
Author:  Lucky7 [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 1:34 am ]
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with her? Nooooooooo.....I do not know her well enough to jump ahead of my self like that.
But I am looking for a girlfriend. I am in no rush because every time I rushed, I always find away to get the girl to loose interest in me. Ironically I have her for 2 classes and that's how we met. So I believe I do have time to build some attraction.
As for valentines day, I am not going to bring nothing up unless she questions me about it.
Author:  MrRandom [ Wed Jun 10, 2009 2:57 am ]
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with her? Nooooooooo.....I do not know her well enough to jump ahead of my self like that.
But I am looking for a girlfriend. I am in no rush because every time I rushed, I always find away to get the girl to loose interest in me. Ironically I have her for 2 classes and that's how we met. So I believe I do have time to build some attraction.
As for valentines day, I am not going to bring nothing up unless she questions me about it.
attraction can be built within minutes or even seconds...you mean rapport?
Try not ending up in the friend zone either i can see that happeneing very easily here.
Author:  Kalel [ Mon Jul 06, 2009 8:16 am ]
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When some people get out of a bad relationship, they associate the pain from the specific relationship with the act of being in a relationship in general. Basically they think that if they starting dating again it will inevitably hurt like it did before, so they try to avoid it all together.

The trick here, and I know it's going to be hard, try being "just friends" (but not really). Set up pseudo-dates where you can game her, but avoid labels like "dates", "dating", "relationship","girlfriend", and anything else that would remind her of a relationship. These are still dates, and you can treat them as such and game her just the same. Basically, she wants to date, but just call something else that doesn't have the pain association. After she sleeps with you, she will gradually remember the positive things about a relationship instead of the negative, and will associate them with you. So be careful because after this she will become a little clingy.
Author:  phantomxrider [ Fri Jul 10, 2009 1:35 am ]
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well, maybe in this case, it would be good to respect her wishes for "no boyfriend." heres a couple reasons why i think it this way:

1. get into a temporary friend zone, but always send an ioi maybe once, twice, 3x a week and thats it. so when she's ready, you might just be in her thoughts.

2. the age-old man quest: the hot friend. she might just have one lol.
Author:  Fivo [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 11:02 pm ]
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I agree with Kalel
It seems like shes sending you IOI's and now is the time to act. Maybe the next time you know of a party you could invite her along. I would definately not recommend getting into any "temporary friendzone" as it may not end up temporary at all.
Author:  Ezo [ Thu Jul 23, 2009 11:11 pm ]
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She means, dont assume or expect anything...
Author:  Black Phantom [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:26 pm ]
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Im gonna give you an advice. You can take it, or you can leave it. It is something I learned a long time ago.

NEVER LISTEN TO WHAT A WOMAN SAYS, ONLY LOOK WHAT SHE IS DOING.

In my experience, women are mostly very emotional when it comes to making decisions. They may be saying one thing today, but doing a completely another thing tomorrow.

Again,

Never listen to what a woman says, Only look what she is doing. Just ignore it.
Author:  Professor Ben [ Tue Aug 25, 2009 2:41 pm ]
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Well, my mother always said to me that if a girl says this, she definitely wants a boyfriend.
Author:  Clueful [ Tue Sep 01, 2009 1:19 am ]
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I'm in this exact same position but with a shy, insecure girls. Anyone got any more tips on how I can get her?
Author:  lilmonkeygod [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 6:50 pm ]
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bottom line it's her shit test bro, make sure you kino and pay attention to details woman loves it when I guy notice something about her that no other guy will pick up, it makes them feel special.
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