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Author:  thenewkid [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 8:23 am ]
Post subject:  Choosing Attractive Friends?
I've wanted to build a "attractive" social circle. where all my friends are you could say "attractive". i've pushed potential friends away because they aren't attractive. is this wrong? i feel like its a very shallow way of getting friends.
Author:  lasni [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 3:43 pm ]
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One word...yes

Seriously i'm not in the position to judge you or say who you should pick as your friends, but from what i've read that is a pretty shallow move, to just tell the ''non attractive'' people to sod off. That's the sort of thing that bitchy highschool teenage girls would do. It doesn't make you a player :wink:
Author:  Abdul-aAfc [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 3:57 pm ]
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If you want to build some solid social proof you have to let everyone in. It doesn't matter how they look.

You just have to be the guy whom everyone knows.

Besides i have found that ugly people are easier to dominate.

Most ugly people know smoking hot HBs
Author:  Jaybot [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 5:35 pm ]
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This seems like a very extreme way to shoot yourself in the foot, the more the merrier no matter what the look like and on a more basic level it is a little weird to turn people down as friends because they aren't attractive enough. You will probably just end up pissing people off and having a very superficial social circle.
Author:  Ezo [ Sun Dec 21, 2008 11:03 pm ]
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You are letting this become a too big issue!

Why would you not want ugly friends? That is terrible! You dont need to bring them along when sarging! I have a lot of friends of all kinds and I spend time with them because I like them for who they are! When I go sarging I bring my wing and no one else!
Selecting your friends like this shows bad social skills and has a bad impact on your loyality...
Author:  Epicurus [ Tue Dec 23, 2008 12:12 pm ]
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What do you mean by "attractive"? It could be read on a number of levels. It is good to surround yourself with people you admire and respect, but it is rude to brush off other people, and you'll genrate animosity doing so. It also reduces your social proof if your behaviour towards other people is disrespectful.
Author:  schaffer599 [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 6:04 am ]
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you dont have to push away the un-attractive friends
just take your attractive friends out to sarge
it will increase your social proof
Author:  intron [ Sun Jan 04, 2009 7:06 pm ]
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Do you want attractive friends? Yes. Do you want only "attractive" friends? Yes... because if they're you're friends you should be enjoying their company. THAT'S what "attractive" should mean in this context. Like others have said, you don't need to be hanging around super models to gain social proof. Hell, one of my best pick-ups to date was at a coffee shop while I was tutoring s female friend who is, to be honest, the most physically unattractive girl I know. In fact, that could actually be a DHV because it shows you're willing to hang out or help a girl who clearly isn't attractive, i.e. you're a guy who doesn't just think with his cock.
Author:  sheeshkabab [ Mon Jan 05, 2009 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Choosing Attractive Friends?
Quote:
I've wanted to build a "attractive" social circle. where all my friends are you could say "attractive". i've pushed potential friends away because they aren't attractive. is this wrong? i feel like its a very shallow way of getting friends.
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Author:  noresiduals [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Choosing Attractive Friends?
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I've wanted to build a "attractive" social circle. where all my friends are you could say "attractive". i've pushed potential friends away because they aren't attractive. is this wrong? i feel like its a very shallow way of getting friends.

going against nearly everyone else on here. i find that the less friends the better. in clubs the worst thing is to have a not cool friend come up to you while ur spitting game to a chick and try to talk to you and jump in the conversation. i think the magic number is 3 meaning you and 2 others. And having 2 great and attractive wingmen who also happen to be great and trusting friends has paid off in so many ways. and besides just by being able to pull sexy girls on a consistent basis you'll have guys lining up to be your friends or try and hang out with you or get something off of you. and i'll be the one to say that female friends are useless. BUT just cause your friends are good looking doesnt mean they'll look out for you. i'd rather have people i can depend on. finding a great friend and wingman thats good looking is pretty hard.
Author:  noresiduals [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:04 pm ]
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another thing. part of being a PUA is the ability to get a woman anywhere anytime. so if you do hang out with some fat stinky guy cause he's cool as hell and you come across some a group of gorgeous shallow ass chicks... even if your lines are good they might not feel you. whats the saying "tell me who you hang out with and i'll tell you who you are"
Author:  soup [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:27 pm ]
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Everyone should have attractive friends.
Attractive in the sense that you are attracted to them. not physically, but in the way that you want to be around you, they bring value to your interactions.

Everyone is attracted to their friends in some way, thats why they're your friends, right?
Author:  Redkid [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 10:37 pm ]
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