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Author:  Compass782 [ Thu Sep 17, 2015 8:33 pm ]
Post subject:  I'm Wearing it for the Women!
I have my own opinion but just a quick question, does it matter what you wear when trying to get girls?. I mean there's certain dress for just about everything, work,school,casual Fridays etc. but does it matter?. Neil Strauss in his book the game used to say Peacocking was a good idea. What are you'r thoughts on this? does it help to dress up,or dress down does it come off as intimidating or trying too hard?..or does really not matter?


Thoughts?


Sincerely,
Compass
Author:  Vandal PUA [ Thu Sep 17, 2015 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Wearing it for the Women!
Don't bother. Just wear what you're comfortable in. For me it's a tight fitting shirt to show off my muscles.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Thu Sep 17, 2015 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Wearing it for the Women!
Wear what you want.
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I have my own opinion but just a quick question, does it matter what you wear when trying to get girls?
If you are trying to get girls, it matters. Don't TRY to get girls. Be the guy who gets girls.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Fri Sep 18, 2015 2:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Wearing it for the Women!
How you dress can effect how physcially attractive you are preceived to be to some extent.

Here is a bit of an extreme example to show my point:

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Thats the same guy in both the left and right pic. Do you think the way he is dressed in the right would allow him to have more success? Yes.

Dressing in certain ways can hide some of your flaws and bring out your strengths.
Author:  Compass782 [ Sun Sep 20, 2015 3:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Wearing it for the Women!
The reason I posted this is because more than a few times I've been out and about just wearing my "Back of the closet clothes" which I personally like but wouldn't wear to dinner or anything. and then I'll meet a cute girl, always well dressed,or at least half well dressed, and I immediately feel childish in her presence as if I'm not worthy... and turn into a mess.
I really like the general thought though "Wear what you want and feel comfortable"


Thanks again to everyone's input
Sincerely, Compass
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Sun Sep 20, 2015 6:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Wearing it for the Women!
I wear flip flops and shorts to the club in the summer. I got a friend who can't go out to the club unless he is dressed extremely well with great looking clothes. He does extremely well, but it is just his belief.
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I immediately feel childish in her presence as if I'm not worthy... and turn into a mess.
It would probably be good for you to take the actions you would normally take, if you were dressed nicely only in "comfortable clothes." You will likely see that the result largely comes from how YOU feel about it.
Author:  elliotrey [ Sun Sep 20, 2015 7:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Wearing it for the Women!
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I have my own opinion but just a quick question, does it matter what you wear when trying to get girls?. I mean there's certain dress for just about everything, work,school,casual Fridays etc. but does it matter?. Neil Strauss in his book the game used to say Peacocking was a good idea. What are you'r thoughts on this? does it help to dress up,or dress down does it come off as intimidating or trying too hard?..or does really not matter?
Hey ninja,

Peacocking is outdated now - it works to attract attention: it's only a basic technique to do so.

Essentially your presence is the most powerful thing you could ware - around that hygiene, being clean, being neat are the only points to remember.

It's your presence that count's - way above anything else; you get that down and baby your magnetic.
I would say if you wanted to consider your dress code; match it to your personal flavour. For me I like to dress smart casual with a dash of modern day vampire - it just suits my game. Your cloths are just an extension of your presence, your personality and your vigour - choose based on who you want to be, then just forget your waring it and eleven your presence.
Author:  marialee [ Thu Oct 15, 2015 7:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Wearing it for the Women!
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It would probably be good for you to take the actions you would normally take, if you were dressed nicely only in "comfortable clothes." You will likely see that the result largely comes from how YOU feel about it.
I only accept skirt dress :D
Author:  Karlb [ Tue Nov 03, 2015 8:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Wearing it for the Women!
Wear what you want to wear - but make certain your shoes are clean and in good repair - a lot of women judge a guy based on his shoes.
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