If your new to the field, you may get rejected a couple of times. DON'T worry about this, I've been through the same things and I've conditioned myself to know one simple truth... If I am rejected, I look at it as a new experience for me to learn what was not successful in my pick up. Remember boys, there's no such thing as failure, only FEEDBACK. If you are having trouble getting over these rejections however, remember these other simple truths.
1. They don’t see the great you and it’s a failure on their part to notice.
2. They eliminated themselves from being with someone who could have brightened up their life.
3. It’s their lack of social skills to adapt to the situation.
4. There is something they need to work on with themselves in order to experience that joy.
5. Most rejections are a product of your imagination.
6. You now have more options and you’ve acquired feedback for use on the next ones.
7. Laugh at the fact that you’ve actually increased their self-esteem while conditioning yourself.
8. They obviously don’t deserve you.
9. You’re conditioning yourself so it’s less likely to get rejected in the future.
10. If you’re feeling some type of emotional response from the rejection, you can use that in your art like poetry, painting or sculpting.
11. Overcoming the rejection will make you 10 times stronger.
12. You have a funny conversation to tell to your friends.
13. They just eliminated themselves from a sexual partner.
14. If they’re new in your life, this person’s opinion doesn’t matter AT ALL. Think, what have they ever really done for you?
15. Finally, the most important thing you can remember, "ON TO THE NEXT ONE!!!"
