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Author:  Silver8 [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Hard times in my life.
Hello all. This might not be "hard times in their life" for someone but for me it is. My life was good, well not that much good but good. Until my sister got married(I'm happy for that of course). She has a rich, nice, intelligent husband. My parents told me that i should be like him and that i should get married maximum at 25 so they can see and care my my children. And that goes through my mind day by day, where will i finish college, where will i live, what will i work, will i have enough income to cover my family. On top of that my brother just left to the USA and I'm feeling sad now and i miss him. I'm not lonely but I'm feeling like that, and also i feel an emptiness in my soul.

Should i really worry about all this stuff? What should i do to feel better and more positively since all these feelings overwhelm me and I'm getting more unsocial and everything goes downhill.

*It's like i wanna scream and cry but thinking that nobody would care makes me not to.
Author:  RedHoTChilliPeppers [ Tue Jan 31, 2012 9:30 pm ]
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You don't need to worry about those things, seriously there are so many things that you can do to forget all the worries. Why not try to set a goal for yourself so that you know where your going so you dont need to worry about marriage, house, work etc. just build a better plan and dont worry.
Author:  trex1024 [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 2:10 am ]
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Hello all. This might not be "hard times in their life" for someone but for me it is. My life was good, well not that much good but good. Until my sister got married(I'm happy for that of course). She has a rich, nice, intelligent husband. My parents told me that i should be like him and that i should get married maximum at 25 so they can see and care my my children. And that goes through my mind day by day, where will i finish college, where will i live, what will i work, will i have enough income to cover my family. On top of that my brother just left to the USA and I'm feeling sad now and i miss him. I'm not lonely but I'm feeling like that, and also i feel an emptiness in my soul.

Should i really worry about all this stuff? What should i do to feel better and more positively since all these feelings overwhelm me and I'm getting more unsocial and everything goes downhill.

*It's like i wanna scream and cry but thinking that nobody would care makes me not to.




man you are not the only one. when i was your age i pretty much dreamed about being that guy by 25 and now that im 28, nothings really changed. i have a kid, im single, i have a good job but nothing solid on the relationship or money front. i know now that the pressure is on me at 28 to make massive changes to give myself some worth but you cant just wake up one day and expect things to have changed overnight. part of this is massive inner game (or the lack of it) since my childhood but you just gotta confront these and get on with it. if i had any advise i'd say make the right calls in life and always aspire to be the best man that you can possibly be and the rest will Follow. all the best my bro!
Author:  Vietman100 [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 7:18 pm ]
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I don't think you should be worried, but you should start planning your future. Like what iPeppers said, set some goals for yourself and strive to achieve them. It sounds like your parents are putting a lot of pressure on you... don't listen to them. I'm sure they are just looking out for you with the best intentions, but parental advice on their kids' future isn't very reliable. Don't work on your motivations and goals for them, work on them only for yourself. Your inner game can get messy when you're trying to work hard to meet someone else's expectations and can make your life very miserable. Once you start motivating yourself to do the things YOU want to do, your life, your personality, and your inner game will improve drastically.
Author:  ElliottGordon [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 11:23 pm ]
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There comes a time in a man's life where you must ask yourself “do I want to live my life doing what my parents say, or do I want to live life for ME?”

Deciding to live life for yourself is not easy, but I think that if you look deep in your heart, you know that that is the right thing to do. You don't have to “take a stand” in front of your parents, just start making little decisions in favor of yourself, and not of them. They may confront you, be critical of you, or advise you for not being on the right track. Always follow what your intuition tells you.
Author:  scloune [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 3:43 pm ]
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Author:  Chicoman69 [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:10 pm ]
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Dude... I'm 31 and never been married. I don't have any kids that I know of either. Your parents should be there to support your decisions, not to condemn you to a life that they see some brother-in-law of yours living. It takes time to grow through all these things. Live your life, not somebody else's.

-Chicoman
Author:  INHIGHWETRUST [ Sun Feb 12, 2012 12:14 am ]
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just stay positive as possible broski
Author:  diesel90 [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 9:33 pm ]
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Never let someone tell you how you should live your life. I am positive you have so many good things going for you, just do what makes you happy. Your parents will truly love you either way.
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