PUA Forum :: MEN give IOI's !!

For some Direct is the right and only way, if you're interested why not directly show it and get to business. For others, who have a hard time expressing their sexuality, indirect lets them get into comfort for a greater time before they switch gears. In both cases you express unconscious body language that shows you are interested. The thing is women detect and decrypt body language much better then we do. So you may work on your body language or just go in direct mode. But one thing that is important, direct or indirect, women aren't clowns, a (+) is attracted to a (-), men are attracted to women, and showing it is alright, we have to de-dramatize!
When i first started, if i ever blushed in front of a girl, i would blame myself and i would blow my game because of the way i reacted afterwards. Nowadays, i accept some of my natural responses and IOI's i emit, I say to myself worst thing (which is actually a good thing) that could happen is she sees i'm nervous and knows i'm interested. We can't always be as smooth as we wish we were!
BoxerSpirit in my opinion yes, direct is the better way, but indirect may be good for your social life and growing your social circle. In PU Direct, gets you where you want to be, faster....in bed with an HB

Author:	T_Rex [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 8:16 pm ]
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Just out of curiosity, we know that women give alot of IOIs when they are attracted or even slightly interested in someone. For example: - Playing with hair - The famous Hair flick - Exposition of the neck - Eye contact - Women qualifying to a men - Feet pointed at you when you talk - Kino -Leaning and Head tilt -Etc My question is what IOI's do men give consciously or not to show they are attracted to a women. On both sides there can be signs of nervousness but beyond that! Just out of curiosity...feel free to POST!!

Author:	dorf [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 8:42 pm ]
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Grabbing the junk just kidding LOL.

Author:	Mr-Rev [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 9:23 pm ]
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May just be a personal thing, I only do these when spot a girl not when talking though, But I tend to either furrow my eyebrows or thumb my earlobe. I'm even aware I'm doing it but doesn't seem to stop me.

Author:	T_Rex [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 9:33 pm ]
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Interesting Mr-rev, i don't know if you've heard about "see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil" But my friend talked to me about that and told me we usually touched our mouth, eyes or ears for different reasons!

Author:	freezeiztactical [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 11:38 pm ]
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I'm not consciously aware of what IOI's I give off even though I'm usually very aware of my body language, etc. When I'm with other people though, sometimes they do the following when interested in a woman (before approaching her - although approaching her is obviously an IOI as well): - Staring (not daydreaming, but when they see someone they want, locking gaze). - Turning to find the alpha male in the group they're with, looking him in the eye so that he knows what you want, and then looking back to the woman. (as if to call dibs or something? I don't know why, they just do it) - If slouching, after having seen the woman, sitting more upright; correcting of any low-value posture. That's just off the top of my head. As I think of more, I'll edit this post.

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Author:	BoxerSpirit [ Mon Oct 10, 2011 11:07 pm ]
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ive noticed when i see a hot girl, i always scratch/touch my arm/hand. Like always, its funny really i now notice i do it, but i still cant help it, it really is just automatic. and thats not even when i just feel intimidated, i can be feeling really good and confident, and ill see a hot girl, still feel the same but still do the "ioi".

Author:	T_Rex [ Mon Oct 10, 2011 11:26 pm ]
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good stuff! I usually straighten up and get into my Alpha male body language position, sometimes i could play with my beard! But now that i'm aware of it, i try no to touch my face or any part of my body !

Author:	zzzz [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 6:59 am ]
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Totally agree with freezeiztactical Staring is the big one. Or constantly glancing towards them. Since we are so visual it's only natural.

Author:	F8L [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 1:08 pm ]
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Quote: Grabbing the junk just kidding LOL. lmao

Author:	BoxerSpirit [ Tue Oct 11, 2011 9:59 pm ]
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question is, what does this mean? if we're unconsciously giving off signals we are attracted to the girl anyway, is it not best to just man up and go direct?

Author:	T_Rex [ Wed Oct 12, 2011 12:42 am ]
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For some Direct is the right and only way, if you're interested why not directly show it and get to business. For others, who have a hard time expressing their sexuality, indirect lets them get into comfort for a greater time before they switch gears. In both cases you express unconscious body language that shows you are interested. The thing is women detect and decrypt body language much better then we do. So you may work on your body language or just go in direct mode. But one thing that is important, direct or indirect, women aren't clowns, a (+) is attracted to a (-), men are attracted to women, and showing it is alright, we have to de-dramatize! When i first started, if i ever blushed in front of a girl, i would blame myself and i would blow my game because of the way i reacted afterwards. Nowadays, i accept some of my natural responses and IOI's i emit, I say to myself worst thing (which is actually a good thing) that could happen is she sees i'm nervous and knows i'm interested. We can't always be as smooth as we wish we were! BoxerSpirit in my opinion yes, direct is the better way, but indirect may be good for your social life and growing your social circle. In PU Direct, gets you where you want to be, faster....in bed with an HB

Author:	*FlaiR* [ Thu Oct 13, 2011 11:31 pm ]
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Quote: For some Direct is the right and only way, if you're interested why not directly show it and get to business. For others, who have a hard time expressing their sexuality, indirect lets them get into comfort for a greater time before they switch gears. In both cases you express unconscious body language that shows you are interested. The thing is women detect and decrypt body language much better then we do. So you may work on your body language or just go in direct mode. But one thing that is important, direct or indirect, women aren't clowns, a (+) is attracted to a (-), men are attracted to women, and showing it is alright, we have to de-dramatize! When i first started, if i ever blushed in front of a girl, i would blame myself and i would blow my game because of the way i reacted afterwards. Nowadays, i accept some of my natural responses and IOI's i emit, I say to myself worst thing (which is actually a good thing) that could happen is she sees i'm nervous and knows i'm interested. We can't always be as smooth as we wish we were! BoxerSpirit in my opinion yes, direct is the better way, but indirect may be good for your social life and growing your social circle. In PU Direct, gets you where you want to be, faster....in bed with an HB Great response! Agree with each word you said right there! Indirect is much easier, but fucks your inner game more than direct game. Also.. with indirect game comes the difficulty of kino escalating. On the other hand.. if you're direct and she responds great to your gaming gear, it's much easier to kino because she knows your attracted to her. Also.. being direct is the important quality that beats DHV spikes (60 year challenge). Why? Because a man being direct is going after what he wants and if you're direct it means your really confident! Which is the #1 attraction switch to any HB's. Therefore, don't limit yourself to approach only with oppinion openers. Here are some IOI's men emmit when they are interested in a HB - re-arrange any part of their shirt, jeans (the most common gesture we make without realizing when we're in the presence of a hot girl) - remove pieces of lint that don't exist on our clothing - play with our hair.. (I realized I play with the front my faux hawk when I'm interested lol) - men gaze a lot at women they like.. they have trouble looking away - try to display dominant body language - lead foot points at his target - his body is oriented towards the most attractive women in a group T_Rex! It's also really good you don't touch your face.. it's not a dominant body language trait! People who have power dont gesture with their hands and keep their hands below chin level all the time. Touching of the face is not considered as a powerful trait. Me too before I touched my face a lot of times, but now I'm almost never doing that ... anyway.. hope I helped some of you guys! Peace out!

Author:	SkaterDick [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 6:41 pm ]
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Hi, I notice the most obvious IOI of mine is; - Start playing with my beard - Modify my shirt position - Eye contact (strong one) + smile. Listening to whatever she is talking about. This happen when a girl is not totally stranger to me. - Scratching I know that i give those obvious IOI, especially for starting this "pickup artist journey", when sometimes we have to IOD girl in order not to be so direct, to attract her, but at least i know my starting position in body language and what to change. Peace

Author:	dlightmen [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 6:52 pm ]
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I think the eye contact thing is moot. If you don't look people in the eyes you can come off as weak and creepy.

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