People say that building an attractive lifestyle will lead to more success with women and I agree with this. I do however feel that I'm underachieving to an extent because I do feel that I have an attractive lifestyle already.
I travel a lot, I have a good job, have a great family, can speak 2 foreign languages, work out at the gym, wear nice clothes, have a cool apartment, love reading books, play the piano, get passes to music festivals and also do volunteering work. I mean that's a serious amount IMO
When a girl gets to really know me and my lifestyle this works a treat. In fact they've been pretty blown away but these have only been where I've been lucky and girls that have got to really know me. But how do I convey to girls that don't know me (e.g. girls I meet at work or through friends) that not only am I a nice dude but that I have a great lifestyle?
I'm naturally not one of these people that likes to talk about myself. I come from a well-off background and because of the area I grew up in I was always taught to be low-key.
The upshot of this is that I'm not a show-off but the down-shot of this is that despite being a confident guy I don't "exude the aura" of having a bloody good lifestyle.
How can I show that I have a good lifestyle without resorting to being a show-off?