PUA Forum :: What makes you interesting?

So I recently noticed I miss a very important attribute called passion in my lifestyle. I have ambition, I'm confident, I'm organised I have a job and etc. But I have no drivewheel for my life, or anything to make myself interesting.

Because I'm still young I dont earn a lot of money, to go out to places and do activities, join basketball teams or dancing lessons. Which same counts for a friend of mine. We always do the same shit which makes us dont spend a coin, but our chillings get monotone at a time. Our friendgroup does the same shit for almost 3 years now.

We recently joined a gym which takes almost halve of my salary, and the other half is needed to get the month trough.

I dont got a passion, and I dont got the money to invest in a passion or to do something to make my life at least a bit interesting. I brainstormed a lot and I dont know what to do, I'm clueless.

What do you guys have to say?
All replies are respected, thanks

Author:	Appss [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:10 pm ]
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So I recently noticed I miss a very important attribute called passion in my lifestyle. I have ambition, I'm confident, I'm organised I have a job and etc. But I have no drivewheel for my life, or anything to make myself interesting. Because I'm still young I dont earn a lot of money, to go out to places and do activities, join basketball teams or dancing lessons. Which same counts for a friend of mine. We always do the same shit which makes us dont spend a coin, but our chillings get monotone at a time. Our friendgroup does the same shit for almost 3 years now. We recently joined a gym which takes almost halve of my salary, and the other half is needed to get the month trough. I dont got a passion, and I dont got the money to invest in a passion or to do something to make my life at least a bit interesting. I brainstormed a lot and I dont know what to do, I'm clueless. What do you guys have to say? All replies are respected, thanks

Author:	bbardot [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:23 pm ]
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Quote: So I recently noticed I miss a very important attribute called passion in my lifestyle. I have ambition, I'm confident, I'm organised I have a job and etc. But I have no drivewheel for my life, or anything to make myself interesting. Because I'm still young I dont earn a lot of money, to go out to places and do activities, join basketball teams or dancing lessons. Which same counts for a friend of mine. We always do the same shit which makes us dont spend a coin, but our chillings get monotone at a time. Our friendgroup does the same shit for almost 3 years now. We recently joined a gym which takes almost halve of my salary, and the other half is needed to get the month trough. I dont got a passion, and I dont got the money to invest in a passion or to do something to make my life at least a bit interesting. I brainstormed a lot and I dont know what to do, I'm clueless. What do you guys have to say? All replies are respected, thanks classic case of the guy that needs to find love i feel like htat sometimes, that everything is great but i still don't get their. when that happens you need to get poeple that love you around. in your case, i think you need a gf:) as simple as that

Author:	RollTheDice [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:24 pm ]
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Just to get out of the house and do shit that doesn't cost money will stimulate you and then bring you into other activites. Just take a long walk with your buddy in the city or the park, then you will come up with awesome stuff to do... But you must stop thinking "my life is lame" because its a downward spiral, THINKING it will make you FEEL it. Don't think about it. Think about how awesome your life is. You are healthy, have a job etc. Also, set up goals to achieve, for example "Im going to try 3 new activities until next month" and follow through, you wont enjoy all of them, but you dont know until you tried. Sincerely RTD

Author:	Appss [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:37 pm ]
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Hehe, I'm not talking about pick up here. I'm talking about finding a passion. Besides school, gym and work. I do read self improvement books, hang out with friends, flirt a lot and do stuff. I just dont got something that fills my heart, to say it like that. I would say I have a passion for working out and everything that is in relation to that and flirting. But I feel like beside that I need another passion. I love life, and everything, but there isn't much that fills my heart to say so. @RollTheDice the thing about doing 3 activities every month is a great idea. Thanks!

Author:	Appss [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:45 pm ]
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Well theres the problem. I decided to go out tonight, but I didn't even have the money to get to the club, let aside pay to enter the club. Besides that, I am a man of action, when were being asked to come chill somewhere we always say yes, instead of staying home.

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Author:	Appss [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:54 pm ]
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Hehe, good to hear that you agree with me on that. I've recently been looking for jobs who earn me more money.

Author:	Ch1mera [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 10:43 pm ]
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I agree with RTD - it's always better to think about yourself positively rather than negatively. Thinking "I'm really boring, I have no passions and my lifestyle is really lame" will come across in your tonality and body language and no one wants that. As for passions, my two cents is: don't start on a hobby because you think it will impress people, do it because you enjoy it. That way, you will really stick at it and get really good at it.

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