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| Author: | convivalAFC [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 12:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to come across as dominate and cool |
How do you do it because when you start at a new high school people don't know you so you can act and come across different. example Body language = Clothes = What to say to people around you, should you say your bored or be negative |
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| Author: | casonova92 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 3:15 am ] |
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The way to go about getting the attention you want is to realize you have a pair of balls and you don't tuck them behind your legs. so... when you walk into your class and if you're sat next to someone - introduce your self and shake his or her hand...this shows that you are friendly and confident. strike up a conversation with someone at the lockers - you'll get attention. Get the attention - you have a voice, speak! If a guy gives you shit - say something cocky for example if someone says "whos this bitch?" you say "describe me to your mother, im pretty sure she'll remember me" Be sociable - smile. No one likes a guy who looks like he has a face like a smacked arse. DO NOT COME ACROSS AS NEGATIVE!! i did that for a 5 years straight, not once did it help me in any shape or form in fact it destroyed my confidence. And as for your fashion - research some mens fashion - standout from the crowd, in a good way. chicks can see what matches and what doesn't - peacocking theory. and where something that you feel comfortable and feel good in. For casual wear i like to wear a red checkered shirt, dark grey jogger jeans and ankle high military boots. Where some nice aftershave too - have a clean smell. And as for people around you - ask where a certain room is, whats this high school got to offer, where do you hang out at lunch etc - connect with people dont push them away..not yet anyway....walk past every hot chick and either say "hi" or "nice top" and strike something up from there - talk about your self, engage with her. Body language -walk as if you feel good about yourself - it shows confidence. make eye contact with people, make hand gestures when you talk with people - dont keep your hands at your side or in your pockets. To show that your're an alpha male - stand in an alpha male way...an alpha male will put his hands on hips to make himself look bigger and look as if he needs room around him - it works for me, when a guy gives you shit, stand like an alpha male, stick your chest out and raise your voice - dont bellow, unless the other guy wants to fight and you can shout at him telling him to back off etc. |
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| Author: | Dr. Jones [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 4:06 am ] |
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I agree with everything casanova said, and I add this: When you meet someone, change your mindset. Don't go into it thinking, "I wonder what this person will think of me." Think, "I wonder what I'm going to think of this person." Instant confidence. I can't tell you how many times I've done this, and EVERY time I either smirk to myself or lightly laugh. You could be meeting a complete weirdass, but it's all good, because it's all for YOUR entertainment. |
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| Author: | Stand Up [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 4:57 am ] |
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Look if you don't have it naturally, you're going to have a hard time building it in school. But you can certainly build something. I'd recommend adopting as many fashion and lifestyle attributes of the "Cool" guys that have the most girls. I mean everything, but don't be a dick. If they wear tight jeans and army boots, you wear tight jeans and army boots. If they play football and listen to hip hop, you play football and listen to hip hop. But always maintain a relaxed and cool attitude. Don't be impressed by the "cool" kids, but don't be a dick to them either. |
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| Author: | dlightmen [ Mon Oct 10, 2011 11:08 pm ] |
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I wouldn't worry about being dominate. My fiend is like that, and people laugh at what shwang he is all the time. He's the type that does the handshake, and grabs your shoulder, trying to show dominance. Just work on being cool.... |
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