Somebody had mentioned they were hoping I'd share a few aspects of text message game, so here are a few quick pointers right away (swamped right now, only time for a few):
1) Very very early on when you're texting a girl you recently met, be sure you take the conversation straight sexual. Don't be over the top, but make no doubt. My favorite like is "Send me a pic
" or something as easy as that. The goal here isn't to get a sexy pic (though it occasionally happens). The goal is to set the tone for the interaction. You want to make it clear right away that you're not just trying to be friends. If she gets offended (rarely happens ever) don't go out of your way to apologize.2) 90% of the time, take at least 3-5 minutes minimum to respond to any and all messages. You've got other shit to do. She is not your priority. If she texts in the middle of the day, don't be afraid to wait an hour or two to text back. The idea here is to make it clear she's not your top priority. You're a man with a purpose-driven life and you won't put it on hold for her.
3) Flirt. A lot.
4) Once you've hung out a few times and have been texting back and forth for at least a week or so, follow the 2 to 1 rule. For every 2 times she initiates the conversation, you initiate it 1 time. Occasionally it's appropriate to apply the 3 to 1 rule now and then if she likes texting quite a bit. This will be apparent.
5) Capitalize, spell and punctuate correctly. You're an intelligent, high value man. Don't make retarded girly abbreviations a habit. That said, don't write books. You want your responses to be shorter than hers the vast majority of the time.
Time to get back to work gentlemen. Enjoy yourselves.
