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Author:  fakehighfive [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 3:06 am ]
Post subject:  don't quite get why this happens
I hate it when this happens, especially if it's a cold approach during the day coz those are the hardest to even get the courage to try, let alone pull off. you see a girl, you end up talking to her and before you know it you're gaming her and it's going well. the time comes for you to part ways and you get a contact detail. not only that, but them saying something confirming they are genuinley waiting for your call/ friend request, something like "oh yeah make sure you call me" or "yh my names chelsea but it's the account spelt with a s, a b and an f". then you add/call them and then nothing. nada. I find it doesn't even matter whether you add the girl as soon as you get home or 3 days later. Either they are interested or they aren't by the time they've had time to think about it.

This happens to me way to many times and I'm just wondering is it only me or does it happen to everyone? I am aware of some reasons, like one girl I kiss closed but didn't want to see again as she was a bit clingy, I gave her my real number because I knew that she wouldn't have the balls to call it, and till this day she hasn't.

But then there are some girls who I'll kiss close and they'll ask for my details first, but when I call or whatever they'll still decide that they've changed their minds!

help please!
Author:  DSapphire [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 1:20 am ]
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Honestly bro, unless you have built REAL rapport with them, it's going to be pretty much a numbers game. Hot chicks are busy, and they get a lot of attention from a lot of different people. They have a lot going on in their lives and unless you make a deep, lasting impression on her, it's easy for you to blur in with the rest of the crowd.

Building deep rapport is my specialty, so I almost never have this happen. In fact I would be shocked if it did.

The thing is, don't take it personally. She could have a million reasons for not getting back to you, and chances are none of them have anything to do with you.
Author:  fakehighfive [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 5:55 am ]
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Honestly bro, unless you have built REAL rapport with them, it's going to be pretty much a numbers game. Hot chicks are busy, and they get a lot of attention from a lot of different people. They have a lot going on in their lives and unless you make a deep, lasting impression on her, it's easy for you to blur in with the rest of the crowd.

Building deep rapport is my specialty, so I almost never have this happen. In fact I would be shocked if it did.

The thing is, don't take it personally. She could have a million reasons for not getting back to you, and chances are none of them have anything to do with you.
thanks dude, I don't take it personally but it is annoying. I think a problem I have is that I do the cocky/funny thing for too long to the point that I'm not letting myself be myself which I need to work on
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 4:44 pm ]
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Also you may be doing something wrong in your follow up game, NO FACEBOOK PLEASE, always get their number, and text the first time, do not call, wait at least a day before texting...this text always generate a response for me:


Pua:Hey! her name, please stop

in the signature your name or nickname


hb: stop what?


pua: thinking about me and smiling, i bet you are doing it right now...



it works 99% of the time because of the"stop" sparks curiosity,


then go in your text funny, sexual.... Shows confidence and that you are different..
Author:  fakehighfive [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 5:53 pm ]
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Also you may be doing something wrong in your follow up game, NO FACEBOOK PLEASE, always get their number, and text the first time, do not call, wait at least a day before texting...this text always generate a response for me:


Pua:Hey! her name, please stop

in the signature your name or nickname


hb: stop what?


pua: thinking about me and smiling, i bet you are doing it right now...



it works 99% of the time because of the"stop" sparks curiosity,


then go in your text funny, sexual.... Shows confidence and that you are different..
not really into the canned stuff. I normally go for both coz it's easier for things to wrong with numbers even with the best of pick ups. but I'll try something like that and try and concentrate less on trying to game her as its easier just to kind fo chill and go into a conversation
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 7:08 pm ]
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Fakefive, i said i use the text to get a response, in your first text you want a response, can or not who the fuck cares, you want a response, once she responded once most likely she will keep responding....Obviously you are doing something wrong, i am telling you what work try it, then come and talk. DO NOT GO FOR FACEBOOK PLEASE! here is an example of text game i use:

HB: Hi sexxy its amy
Me:my name ain't sexy is latin diesel, miz uz
Hb:Ur sexxxxy to me bby.. mwah
Me: Muaz back with tongue
hb:I had a lot of fun dancing with you
Me: I had a lot of fun pretending to be dancing just grabbing your ass...
hb: I like you grabbing my ass
hb: send me a pic
me: nooooooo that is evidence
hb: evidence for what
me: for whatever bad thing i do
hb: what bad thing
me: i don' t know use your imagination
hb:i want to do bad things to you!
me: good for you i wish i could say the same thing lol
me: talk is cheap actions speak louder than words...
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Author:  fakehighfive [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 8:27 pm ]
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Fakefive, i said i use the text to get a response, in your first text you want a response, can or not who the fuck cares, you want a response, once she responded once most likely she will keep responding....Obviously you are doing something wrong, i am telling you what work try it, then come and talk. DO NOT GO FOR FACEBOOK PLEASE! here is an example of text game i use:

HB: Hi sexxy its amy
Me:my name ain't sexy is latin diesel, miz uz
Hb:Ur sexxxxy to me bby.. mwah
Me: Muaz back with tongue
hb:I had a lot of fun dancing with you
Me: I had a lot of fun pretending to be dancing just grabbing your ass...
hb: I like you grabbing my ass
hb: send me a pic
me: nooooooo that is evidence
hb: evidence for what
me: for whatever bad thing i do
hb: what bad thing
me: i don' t know use your imagination
hb:i want to do bad things to you!
me: good for you i wish i could say the same thing lol
me: talk is cheap actions speak louder than words...
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dude don't get me wrong I'm taking in what you're saying, but there's things I want and do not want to do, we'll just call them personal differences :)

would be more interested as to why you're so against facebook. from my experience it doesn't matter what medium you use to talk to the girl, it all ends up being down to what you've said and done with her. plus, not all girls have credit :P
Author:  skills360 [ Thu Aug 18, 2011 3:01 am ]
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cool! i am against facebook cause she has too much access to info. other girls can see it, etc..., plus it shows too much interest, i love text game, but limit contact with a girl as much as possible and make her meet you in person...Facebook, Too much drama, even though when i was single i used the myspace drama too my advantage...hahaha!
Author:  fakehighfive [ Thu Aug 18, 2011 6:18 am ]
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cool! i am against facebook cause she has too much access to info. other girls can see it, etc..., plus it shows too much interest, i love text game, but limit contact with a girl as much as possible and make her meet you in person...Facebook, Too much drama, even though when i was single i used the myspace drama too my advantage...hahaha!
I hear you but for me I just prefer chat coz it's more fluent and I don't have to keep on topping up my phone. but yeah I do talk to much but now I try and limit how much I talk and try and arrange a meet asap!
Author:  skills360 [ Thu Aug 18, 2011 5:24 pm ]
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k agree, use facebook, if is working for you, i think typing whatever has an advantage over phone convo. cause you can fix mistakes and plan what you are saying cool! stand corrected, i use google voice...I never give my number in google voice you type on the computer... cool man, keep it up!
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