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| Author: | jaropennies [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 4:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Freezing Up, Not having any confidence? |
If there is one person in the world who has THE worst game ever, it's me. Is it true that girls can actually tell when a guy has low confidence? Anytime I see a girl who doesn't exactly notice me I feel extremely intimidated and I kind of stand off. Or say there are other guys around, if I talk to this girl I get nervous and wonder if they're thinking Im some kind of tool. How would I get past this? |
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| Author: | xJokerz [ Fri Jul 01, 2011 3:40 pm ] |
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You´re thinking too much. Everyone can see if you are confident or not. That anxiety is absolutely normal at the beginning and the reason for that is that your Inner Game isn´t solid so read books and start believing in yourself |
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| Author: | Funfun [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 10:10 am ] |
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Practice, practice and practice, I promise, you will gain self confidence with it. Great exercise, say hello to 100 people. Next time, make small talk, after that ask for girl number. Differ from other men, wear unusual clothes, good example is will.i.am. Good luck dude! |
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| Author: | Mr. E [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 3:23 pm ] |
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Yea man I agree with FunFun, the only way to get rid of it to approach more ppl. I used to be the same way and im no where near what i used to be like and all i did was talk to more girls to conquer my fear of talking to girls. You might think you sound stupid at first but the more work you put in the more it will show. |
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| Author: | dsneidz [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 6:24 pm ] |
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Hey man, I agree with what was said above, your thinking to much and don't believe in your self. It's normal in the beginning but you have to take concrete steps to gain that confidence. I would look into guys like Cory Skyy who use affirmations and visualizations to build confidence or other inner game coaches to build that confidence. You can be sure that girls will be able to see the difference. -Dave |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 6:37 pm ] |
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use the 3 second rule... start by approaching single sets, double sets, with WOMEN only, 3 second rule... stand tall, straight,head slightly back, talk over the shoulder make it look accidental, start by saying hi, how is it going?? after a bit of success, again a bit more, take baby steps...Also study mm, a bit, and watch the pua vh1, here is a link, a lot of the guys had your same problem, i can give you and you can get all the advise you want and need, but at some point you have to jump in the water, women are just women, they are just people, just like your mom, your dad your friend, just people, again 3 second rule...start small...here is a link for pua vh1: http://eztvlinks.com/?s=the+pickup+artist |
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