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Author:  Gewoonissos [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 9:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Bro f-closing my ex girlfriend

So, I guess the title says it all. Was together with this girl for a couple of months. Now a few days ago my friend f-closed her at a festival. I can't say anything to him about it because he is and will stay my friend. I knew they were flirting but I wasn't expecting her to do shit like this.
I feel really shit about her actions because eventhough I told my friend I wouldn't mind I do of course.
How to handle this properly?

Author:  AvihooI [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 9:24 pm ]
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Tie both of them up. Put them in your trunk. Drive to a river and sink your car. Stan style :D

J/K. Why do you even care, it's your ex. Just move on and f-close others girls.

Author:  axtion [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:13 am ]
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sounds like a story to an eminem song

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 11:45 am ]
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........NOW YOU FUCK HER BEST FRIEND ;)

Author:  calimoxo [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 12:00 pm ]
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Why wouldn't you expect her to do it? Get her off that pedestal, if the moment feels right she'd probably fuck your Pop too...no biggie - couple of months is nothing. Carry on Sarging sir. 8)

Author:  axtion [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 2:43 pm ]
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She probably didn't do it to spite you. The best axtion to take is not let it get to you, find hotter girls and enjoy your life

Author:  skills360 [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 3:32 am ]
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Guy Code broken, you do not game your friend ex or current... Pua code broken...

Author:  Mr. E [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 2:27 pm ]
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Quote:
........NOW YOU FUCK HER BEST FRIEND ;)

Hahahahaha exactly

Author:  ProfessorX [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 6:02 pm ]
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One man's trash is another man's treasure. Let it go.

Author:  Little Panda [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 6:37 pm ]
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Why did you tell him you are fine with it, if you know you're not?

Don't open doors for your friend just because you want to feel like a good pal. Let him be the good pal and pass on this girl, there's plenty of girls to go around.

I told MY friend I would be VERY uncomfortable and feel betrayed if he fucked my ex. This was because I still had feelings for her.

When my feelings for her faded away I told my friend BY ALL MEANS he can fuck her - to practice his sex-skills. Just use her for it. Because I know that she WILL fuck him to get back at me (same reason YOUR ex banged your friend, most probably). So they banged. I didn't mind. He didn't mind. She didn't mind.

The difference between our situations is that you DID mind, but you still told him it would be OK if he banged your ex.

You made the mistake here. You got nobody else to blame my man.

Only thing you can do now is let your friend know the truth. Tell him how you feel about what they did and tell him how you feel about any future interactions he may have with the girl.

Just be honest, he's your friend.

Author:  bmaxwe [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:07 am ]
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You fell shitty cause shes moved on and you havent. It sounds like you are pretending to have moved on by telling your homie it was cool. When you knew this would happen. My Advice. Dont tell your boy your Mad, It wont Change Anything. Just Move ON. Go Find A new Girl. Have More Fun Then Her. You Broke Up. In The Future If ITs Not Cool With You Then Dont Tell Your Friends It IS.
Sorry For Your Loss, Good Luck!

Author:  skills360 [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 6:06 pm ]
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Am i missing something here, as i said if you have a friend/wing you do not HOOK UP with exes, family members, etc... Braking the bro code... wtf! end up story...Dump your so call "friend".

Author:  calimoxo [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 7:31 am ]
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Quote:
Am i missing something here, as i said if you have a friend/wing you do not HOOK UP with exes, family members, etc... Braking the bro code... wtf! end up story...Dump your so call "friend".
Verbal Bro Code aint worth the paper its written on. If he found an opening, his dick would smash it - better to just be cool with it.

Author:  Skandi [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 3:16 am ]
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If the guy likes your sloppy seconds, Good on him man.

Get out the door, get your game face on and Get a HB or a SHB and Fclose as many as you can, then you would be a even better friend for giving him alot of choice :P Plenty more fish in the sea my man! =) goodluck!

Author:  axtion [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 9:50 pm ]
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Why did you tell him you are fine with it, if you know you're not?

Don't open doors for your friend just because you want to feel like a good pal. Let him be the good pal and pass on this girl, there's plenty of girls to go around.

I told MY friend I would be VERY uncomfortable and feel betrayed if he fucked my ex. This was because I still had feelings for her.

When my feelings for her faded away I told my friend BY ALL MEANS he can fuck her - to practice his sex-skills. Just use her for it. Because I know that she WILL fuck him to get back at me (same reason YOUR ex banged your friend, most probably). So they banged. I didn't mind. He didn't mind. She didn't mind.

The difference between our situations is that you DID mind, but you still told him it would be OK if he banged your ex.

You made the mistake here. You got nobody else to blame my man.

Only thing you can do now is let your friend know the truth. Tell him how you feel about what they did and tell him how you feel about any future interactions he may have with the girl.

Just be honest, he's your friend.
Prefectly written.

It's all about being honest with yourself and not hiding how you feel about something when it is going to bother you.

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